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Posted: Wed Mar 10, 2010 9:46 am
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Posted: Wed Mar 10, 2010 9:49 am
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Posted: Wed Mar 10, 2010 6:58 pm
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Posted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 8:01 am
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Posted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 8:29 am
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Posted: Wed Mar 31, 2010 12:58 am
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Posted: Fri Apr 09, 2010 10:07 am
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i'd say the wisest thing in this situation is that yes, he can have visitation rights, but not any custody. why should he? he didn't do anything for her when she was younger, but you also can't completely deny him visitation (it is his child after all, and your little girl may want to see her dad. if she says 'no. i don't want to see him' on her own free will (so no 'your dad is a bad person because of this, this and this' coaching from you), then that's nobody's fault). and is the girlfriend giving any indication that he isn't being a good dad when he has visitation (is she doing stuff with her while he just plays video games or talks on the phone or internet to other women? it doesn't sound like he changed much. or is he doing stuff with her). that there could be a critical factor if he gets any custody later that could be used against him. i'm speaking some of this as a child of divorce. my dad did a lot of the same stuff your guy did, but he was a dad when he was with us. and he was paying child support. but my mom was so mad at him, she tried to turn all of us against him ('your dad is a bad man because he does this, this, and this, and you're crazy if you want to be involved in his life'), and she successfully turned one of us against him (one out of four i guess isn't bad. and it wasn't me. there's some of the stuff that came out later that i thought was unfair on my dad, like a lot of verbal abuse, saying he was a bad father or he didn't love his children. no wonder he revolted.)there's this stuff i'm saying more or less for the welfare of your daughter, because she's the one the both of you want to grow up and be a happy person, not someone with daddy issues just sayin
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Posted: Thu Jul 01, 2010 8:23 pm
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