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Posted: Fri May 21, 2010 6:36 pm
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Posted: Sat May 22, 2010 2:26 pm
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Posted: Sat May 22, 2010 10:33 pm
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Angel Nicholson Honestly, I find the whole "Never date your friend's ex" rule a bit ridiculous. I mean, they broke up. The guy is fair game. I can understand leaving some time between their break up for him to get over her and her get over him, so don't just dive in for him like, the day after the break up, but I find the rule not to ever go for him just ridiculous. The guy isn't her's anymore. I say go for it. If you like him, you like him. You can't change your feelings and your friend doesn't have ownership over him. She can't tell you not to. If you need someone to talk to about this, don't hesitate to say something to me about it. I've been there :3 But don't EVER listen to the "don't date your friend's ex" because then my mom wouldn't have been married and she would never have had my two baby brothers. You never know what could happen. That rule is just made up my some bitter girls who couldn't let go of their guys <3
I agree the rule can be taken a bit too fair. You'd think people could just use their common sense; I mean if it's your best friend and you know she's still head over heels for the guy then it's a bit insensitive, but if it's just some guy she used to have a casual thing with then why not? It's not about ownership of the poor boy, it's just about trying not to hurt anyone's feelings. @the OP: Won't you be able to see him when school finishes?
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Posted: Sat May 22, 2010 10:37 pm
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LyricalSoul93 Angel Nicholson Honestly, I find the whole "Never date your friend's ex" rule a bit ridiculous. I mean, they broke up. The guy is fair game. I can understand leaving some time between their break up for him to get over her and her get over him, so don't just dive in for him like, the day after the break up, but I find the rule not to ever go for him just ridiculous. The guy isn't her's anymore. I say go for it. If you like him, you like him. You can't change your feelings and your friend doesn't have ownership over him. She can't tell you not to. If you need someone to talk to about this, don't hesitate to say something to me about it. I've been there :3 But don't EVER listen to the "don't date your friend's ex" because then my mom wouldn't have been married and she would never have had my two baby brothers. You never know what could happen. That rule is just made up my some bitter girls who couldn't let go of their guys <3 I agree the rule can be taken a bit too fair. You'd think people could just use their common sense; I mean if it's your best friend and you know she's still head over heels for the guy then it's a bit insensitive, but if it's just some guy she used to have a casual thing with then why not? It's not about ownership of the poor boy, it's just about trying not to hurt anyone's feelings. @the OP: Won't you be able to see him when school finishes? I dunno, I don't think it should be a problem if she's completely over him. Especially if she was the one who ended it because she didn't feel it or something like that. If they were completely head over heels, and they broke up, she was over him and it had been quite a while (about a year at least) it shouldn't be a problem at all. I mean, like I said before, he's not hers anymore and if she's over him (always make sure and if you have doubts, I say investigate) he should be fair game. Ya know what I mean? I'm not trying to be insensitive here sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat May 22, 2010 10:47 pm
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Angel Nicholson LyricalSoul93 Angel Nicholson Honestly, I find the whole "Never date your friend's ex" rule a bit ridiculous. I mean, they broke up. The guy is fair game. I can understand leaving some time between their break up for him to get over her and her get over him, so don't just dive in for him like, the day after the break up, but I find the rule not to ever go for him just ridiculous. The guy isn't her's anymore. I say go for it. If you like him, you like him. You can't change your feelings and your friend doesn't have ownership over him. She can't tell you not to. If you need someone to talk to about this, don't hesitate to say something to me about it. I've been there :3 But don't EVER listen to the "don't date your friend's ex" because then my mom wouldn't have been married and she would never have had my two baby brothers. You never know what could happen. That rule is just made up my some bitter girls who couldn't let go of their guys <3 I agree the rule can be taken a bit too fair. You'd think people could just use their common sense; I mean if it's your best friend and you know she's still head over heels for the guy then it's a bit insensitive, but if it's just some guy she used to have a casual thing with then why not? It's not about ownership of the poor boy, it's just about trying not to hurt anyone's feelings. @the OP: Won't you be able to see him when school finishes?I dunno, I don't think it should be a problem if she's completely over him. Especially if she was the one who ended it because she didn't feel it or something like that. If they were completely head over heels, and they broke up, she was over him and it had been quite a while (about a year at least) it shouldn't be a problem at all. I mean, like I said before, he's not hers anymore and if she's over him (always make sure and if you have doubts, I say investigate) he should be fair game. Ya know what I mean? I'm not trying to be insensitive here sweatdrop Lol, I wasn't calling you insensitive, I was agreeing with you! I think it's silly people use it as just a solid rule without looking at the circumstances. If she's over him, no harm done.
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Posted: Sat May 22, 2010 10:57 pm
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LyricalSoul93 Angel Nicholson LyricalSoul93 Angel Nicholson Honestly, I find the whole "Never date your friend's ex" rule a bit ridiculous. I mean, they broke up. The guy is fair game. I can understand leaving some time between their break up for him to get over her and her get over him, so don't just dive in for him like, the day after the break up, but I find the rule not to ever go for him just ridiculous. The guy isn't her's anymore. I say go for it. If you like him, you like him. You can't change your feelings and your friend doesn't have ownership over him. She can't tell you not to. If you need someone to talk to about this, don't hesitate to say something to me about it. I've been there :3 But don't EVER listen to the "don't date your friend's ex" because then my mom wouldn't have been married and she would never have had my two baby brothers. You never know what could happen. That rule is just made up my some bitter girls who couldn't let go of their guys <3 I agree the rule can be taken a bit too fair. You'd think people could just use their common sense; I mean if it's your best friend and you know she's still head over heels for the guy then it's a bit insensitive, but if it's just some guy she used to have a casual thing with then why not? It's not about ownership of the poor boy, it's just about trying not to hurt anyone's feelings. @the OP: Won't you be able to see him when school finishes?I dunno, I don't think it should be a problem if she's completely over him. Especially if she was the one who ended it because she didn't feel it or something like that. If they were completely head over heels, and they broke up, she was over him and it had been quite a while (about a year at least) it shouldn't be a problem at all. I mean, like I said before, he's not hers anymore and if she's over him (always make sure and if you have doubts, I say investigate) he should be fair game. Ya know what I mean? I'm not trying to be insensitive here sweatdrop Lol, I wasn't calling you insensitive, I was agreeing with you! I think it's silly people use it as just a solid rule without looking at the circumstances. If she's over him, no harm done. Haha alrightie, just making sure xD I just don't get why girls try to force that rule on their friends til the end. I mean, there's been a couple of my ex's my friend's dated. Because I didn't follow the rule, i wasn't a b***h about it, and their relationships worked fine (for a while anyway sweatdrop ) I just think it's silly. Just because they didn't work out for you, doesn't mean they won't work out for your friends =P
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Posted: Mon May 24, 2010 6:14 pm
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Posted: Mon May 24, 2010 10:20 pm
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