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 Posted: Mon May 24, 2010 12:51 pm
So..
I have a problem with boys. Whenever I should talk to them or even face them, my mood gets horrible and I get aggressive. It's gotten a bit better than my last class, but it's still pretty horrible...
Do you girlies know how I could try to get "normal"?
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Posted: Mon May 24, 2010 2:05 pm
Perhapps you're simply venting some sort of subconcious troubles, drama or trauma, even, on the opposite sex. Maybe you need to find some middle ground within yourself in order to face them without being so agressive. I would suggest you start with moderate meditation or yoga, but if you're just a violent type, maybe go to the gym and grab yourself a punching bag? wink
(I'm the exact opposite, by the way. I just ignore the crap out of guys. Of course, that tends to hurt their ego so they chase after me sometimes. sweatdrop )
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Posted: Mon May 24, 2010 10:30 pm
Wow, never heard of that before. xP Maybe something happened with someone of the opposite sex that you're subconsciously connecting with all members of the opposite sex? xD It sounds really lame, but I guess try to focus on the specific one talking to you and his better attributes. I know such qualities tend to be few and far between on boys, but perhaps trying to find them will distract you from being angry. ;P
Also, if it makes you feel any better, I have kind of a problem with hitting guys. A lot of times I catch myself hitting them a lot for no reason. And it's not cute play hitting... it's them glare at me and ask why I'm bruising their arm hitting. So. Good thing your aggressive thoughts aren't combined with my aggressive actions, I guess. =P
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Posted: Mon May 24, 2010 11:30 pm
As my two predecessors have said, perhaps you have a subconscious hatred for the male sex. Perhaps something happened when you were little, that has instilled in your personality a hatred of males. Perhaps, to amend this, you could hang around a guy, and find out exactly what about them irritates you, and go from there.
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Posted: Tue May 25, 2010 8:33 am
Thank you everyone for your answears ^^
Well, I haven't experienced something traumatic with the opposite sex... Okay, in my last class (I was new and couldn't speak the language very well), there were almost always boys irritating me and my friends.
But, I'll try to start with yoga.. I'm not really a violent person, but I can get angry/irritated pretty fast.
I'll also try to analyze why they irritate me so much. whee
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