He is always nervous about our relationship.He doesn't want too loose me and i told him i'm not going anywhere. and then he thinks about his relationships how they never last. and he knows i never been in a relationship longer than 1month,so that scared him.What can i tell him,to make him less nervous and keep the negative thoughts out?
Posted: Tue Jun 08, 2010 4:52 pm
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I would discourage those thoughts.... Not because they're bad, but they lead to major clinginess. If you like that, then, okay, leave it. Those very words were the end of my last relationship :/
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Posted: Tue Jun 08, 2010 4:54 pm
Tell him how much he means to you and how much you love him.
Just because he's struggled in the past, doesn't mean that your relationship with him has to suffer the same fate.
Try to get him to be more optimistic about your future together and that if anything should go wrong, you'll be there for him through thick and thin and you'll try to make the most out of your time with him.