this is sorta weird. um..... help?

[XxXluna eclipseXxX]

ok, this will be a bit strange. my boyfriend cheated on me. i gave him options so we could stay together but he never answered. um, well, we broke up, and i havnt heard from him since he cheated. i have a new bf, but........ i dont love him. i like him as a friend, but thats it. the guy that i do like has a gf, and i dont want to hurt my bf's feelings by telling him i am not actually in love with him. he is rarely online, and we never see eachother. whaT shoul i do? it is confusing to me.  

[Iceestar]

Tell him the truth. No good comes from lying. Tell him you still want to be friend though and that you might end up liking him later on in life, but right now you just want to be friends.  

[.Vindicated.Of.Sanity.]

It's more humane to hurt him a bit and tell him the truth than to lead him on and hurt him a lot later when he finds out the truth.

 

[bancelXD]

tell him the truth because you are acctually hurting him by not telling him  

[M e h P u s s N B o o t s]

I agree with everyone- Tell him. It's not fair to either of you to stay in a relationship where you don't love him.

 

[Break My Reality]

i agree with everyone
jus tell him the truth
theres no point in being with someone when the feelings not even there
if he really likes yu he'll understand and respect yur desicion
yeah he'll be hurt but he'll get over it if yu dont like him like that then explain it to him dont jus keep giving him false hope that yu do like him like that d:  

[viper_353]

Haa, yeah you've got some great answers up there!
Yeah, I'm thinking you should tell him. It's going to be better to do it now than go a while and hurt his feelings more. Don't worry, it's for the best for both of you.  

[AstridMiriam]

I think you should tell him how you feel about him.
Just hoping he understands.

 

[Testicular Diabeetus]

Tell him how you feel, being with him when you're not even in love with him will hurt him more in the long run.
It's best to just end it now.