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Miss Moll

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 26, 2010 7:18 pm


Alright, this is a little rant. First off, I love my boyfriend so much, but sometimes he can be a d**k. And he won't even realize it.
First things first though:
My birthday is the same day as his brother's, so one would think it would be easy to remember. Well, he didn't, nor did he talk to me that entire day till late, around midnight. Well I waited till midnight and replied, and he asked what I was doing.
Well, to get back in a civil manner I said, "Thinking about someone." Well being all cocky, he asked who, expecting it to be him. Instead, I said, "Tucker, he just wished me happy birthday not to long ago."
[Tucker is an ex-boyfriend, still friend. And in all actuality, he didn't text >:3]
Well, he got all frantic about forgetting, then started on about how he was pissed that I brought him up. I felt triumph.


Well today: was his birthday, and all week we were talking about how he'd take me out to the movies, and have dinner or something. So, during that week I was working on a card, a very awsome card at that, as well as wrapping his gift: I knew he would love it.
Anyway, he calls and says he's leaving the house and will be at my house in about an hour. So I get excited and go fix my hair, make-up, the works. Then 45 minutes pass and he calls saying he can't go to the movies all of a sudden. No explination. Then I hear his friend in the background saying, "Tell her you can do it tomarrow or something." Then he replies with that, soon taking it back and went on about something like, "Well then again, we're going fishing tomarrow..."
I just- AAAH! It crushed my heart, I don't even want to go anymore. F* the movies! I just feel like he takes me for grandate sometimes...
Please tell me if I'm just being a bratty girlfriend? <:/
PostPosted: Mon Jul 26, 2010 7:29 pm


No, you're not being a bratty girlfriend.
I would be pissed off to hell if my .. well if I had a boyfriend and he did that to me.
He doesn't seem to be considerate of your emotions and he IS taking for for granted, probably because he thinks that he'll never lose you.
But if he keeps this up, he might just.

You need to give him a wake up call that it's not okay for him to continue treating you this way.
If it persists, kick his a** to the curb.

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 27, 2010 12:16 am


I agree-- you need to crack the whip, let him know that him treating you like this is not okay. I think he is definitely taking you for granted, and you need to let him know that that's not okay with you. Sit him down and talk with him, or do it in any way you think he'll pay attention. If you have to, maybe say that you two should take a break. Even if he begs for you to come back, explain to him how he's hurt you and what you expect if he wants you to stay with him. Explain that you don't ask a lot from him, all you expect is a little respect and consideration.
PostPosted: Wed Jul 28, 2010 3:34 am


Both of you are at fault here.
One, you were too hard on him for forgetting your birthday.
It doesn't sound like you've been dating long, honestly..
I would be pissed, too, but you don't need to bring up the ex --
that's probably what pissed him off and caused the date cancellation.

Talk it out with him. Be the mature one and apologize first.
then b***h at him about forgetting your b-day
(without being so passive aggressive about it!)
and that he obviously blew you off.
Don't let it go. Converse about it and I'm sure, if it's love, you can work it out just fine and dandy.

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Miss Moll

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 28, 2010 3:45 pm


flauterfli
Both of you are at fault here.
One, you were too hard on him for forgetting your birthday.
It doesn't sound like you've been dating long, honestly..
I would be pissed, too, but you don't need to bring up the ex --
that's probably what pissed him off and caused the date cancellation.

Talk it out with him. Be the mature one and apologize first.
then b***h at him about forgetting your b-day
(without being so passive aggressive about it!)
and that he obviously blew you off.
Don't let it go. Converse about it and I'm sure, if it's love, you can work it out just fine and dandy.

We've been dating for about 2 years now. We've been dating for some time. But thanks for the advice. He explained things better the next day. So things are good.
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