Wat are ur opinions on this??

[ToniiBaybee]

kay so imagine that ur bi (if yuh are bi, yuh dnt have to imagine...duhh lmfao). Ur already with a boy but then theres a gurl that wants to get with yuh. Yuh like the gurl but yuh tell her that yuh have a bf. then she says when ur bi, yuh can have a bf and a gf. What are ur opinions on having both a gf and a bf??  

[44hrygydi]

If you're into that kind of stuff than there shouldn't be a problem and as long both your boyfriend and girlfriend are both OK with you sharing them. It's really up to you. If you like the idea of having both and want both, go for it.

Keep in mind, however, you don't have to be bisexual to have multiple partners. Heterosexuals, homosexuals, pansexuals, etc, can all have multiple partners at once as well. It isn't just limited to bisexuals.

Another thing, not all bisexuals believe in having multiple partners at once.  

[S n u g g l e The G e e k]

I agree with Illusive. Just because you are bisexual doesn't mean you are entitled to have multiple partners. Any sexual orientation can have that. Its called Polyamory. My sister is in a polyamorous relationship, so I know a little bit about how they work. As long as both partners are okay with sharing you, and you are able to give the same amount of love to each partner, then it is your decision wheter or not you decide to become polyamorous. But as stated. Both partners must be in agreement with it.

Polyamourous relationships can be difficult, however, and should only be done if you believe that you can fully split your time and love between the two partners. It could be emotionally taxing to you yourself to do this, because one of the partners may feel left out if your love tends to favor one a little more than the other.

Polyamoury isn't an easy thing to accomplish, I know I could never do it, because I can't give my love to multiple people at once, but if you feel that you can do it successfully, then more power to you.  

[ToniiBaybee]

i'm not saying I believe in it. I consider it cheating. But it has happened to me and i just wanted other ppls opinion on it. thats all  

[loveless_in_hell]

That happened to a girl at my school. Her boyfriend was not happy and said she had to make the choice, date him or the girl.
She stayed with him and now is dating him and another guy. Both know about each other.

To me, cheating is cheating. Also being bi doesn't mean you have to have a boyfriend and girlfriend. Other people who aren't that way do it.
But hey if the boyfriend is Ok with his girlfriend having a girlfriend then Ok, its the girls choice. I just belive its wrong, but it's not my choice. Its theirs  

[Le Scratch]

Being bisexual doesn't mean being polyamorous. Anyone who thinks it's okay to be involved with two (or more) people just because you're bisexual is ignorant and childish in their logic. I think I may be, simply because of how close I can get to multiple people and how openly sappy I am, but I'm not about to risk a friendship or relationship over my desires either. It's a sacrifice I'll take because I know most people aren't okay with that.  

[bicanthrope]

Tee-Hee_On_Deck

kay so imagine that ur bi (if yuh are bi, yuh dnt have to imagine...duhh lmfao). Ur already with a boy but then theres a gurl that wants to get with yuh. Yuh like the gurl but yuh tell her that yuh have a bf. then she says when ur bi, yuh can have a bf and a gf. What are ur opinions on having both a gf and a bf??

Only if you're polyamorous.

Being bisexual is NOT an excuse to date more than one person.  

[Tsukiko Yamayuri]

Regardless of sexual orientation, I consider having more than one partner to be cheating. However, if all parties involved are fully knowledgeable and accepting of the situation, then who am I to judge?

 

[Bridget Paloumar]

illusive_chaos

If you're into that kind of stuff than there shouldn't be a problem and as long both your boyfriend and girlfriend are both OK with you sharing them. It's really up to you. If you like the idea of having both and want both, go for it.

Keep in mind, however, you don't have to be bisexual to have multiple partners. Heterosexuals, homosexuals, pansexuals, etc, can all have multiple partners at once as well. It isn't just limited to bisexuals.

Another thing, not all bisexuals believe in having multiple partners at once.

Very well put, in my opinion, Illusive.

One thing that I'd like to mention about this from personal experience; be careful that both of the other people are truly okay with it and not just saying they are to prove or disprove a point.This is the situation I got into with my girlfriend, and when her other significant other (also female) got jealous, things got ugly in a hurry, and I think all of us got hurt pretty badly, especially my girlfriend as she was caught in the middle between us.

It's a very fine line to walk and a hard thing to balance, but if it's what a person wants and they feel they can do it, all the more power to them with the right partners.  

[Tzagnos Zorba]

If the bf is ok with it and the gf is ok with it then it's really a question that only the person who's decision it is has a right to decide. Everyone has to live with what they do and if they feel in their heart that it's right for them , then it's probably the right thing to do. For me it wouldn't be, but I'm the kinda guy that wants to be with one person.. and if I'm not enough for one person to want and be satisfied with then they can keep lookin cause I don't take second seat in a relationship.  

[Next_Gen_AnT]

Well, if that's what their are into then I guess whatever floats their boat. I'm bisexual and I have a boyfriend but I wouldn't date anybody else, I consider that cheating and being unfaithful to my partner. Just cause' you're bi doesn't mean that it's okay to date two people at once. Some people might be into that but I personally wouldn't do something like that.  

[NegaScott_7x7]

I sure as hell wouldn't do it.
If im not enough for them then its over.
When it comes to my relationships, theres no such thing as loving or being in love with more than 1 person. Theres no such thing as commitments to 2 people.
I mean, if your into that, whatever. But I couldn't and wouldn't do it.  

[handsoff]

It all comes down to your preference and your boyfriends. If he is O.K. with you being with someone else along with him, and YOU'RE O.K. with it as well then awesome.
If not then again. Awesome.
I doesn't matter if your bi or not. People believe in "poly" relationships or "mono" relationships. Poly is basically an "open relationship" and Mono meaning just 1 on 1.

Me personally, I am mono. If you are with another person while with me, you are cheating. I can't do open relationships. Not my style. cool