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Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 5:27 pm
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Ok. So I have pretty much no problem telling you guys that I am about to turn 21 and am a virgin. I have only met one girl who I wanted to do that with, and she and I broke up before I had a chance, (I wanted to make sure we were on a firm footing etc). So I used to have a problem with this, but I'm kind of ok with it now. However, the one thing that dicks me off is that everyone else in my house (besides Gerard who buggered off back to his parents house for the summer) has sex ALL THE ******** TIME. And knowing that isn't the worst part. Tonight, it's my friend's birthday so we're all sitting drinking and talking and the topic of sex comes up (surprise surprise). But the more I think about it, sex seems to be the focus of conversation in our house and it makes me ******** sick. Not only because it means I can't contribute to the conversation, but because some of my housemates seem to think that no-one would be together if they weren't having sex. I disagree with this to such an extent that I nearly started a row with my friend Gerard the other night, arguing with him that people's personalities are way more important.
Basically Suites, as it's my friend's 21st birthday, I've had 5 tins of cider, 2 glasses of sangria and about 5 shots. I just needed to get this off my chest. I believe in love, I believe in liking a person for more than getting sexual satisfaction out of them. But the way my housemates get on, they think that sex is all there is to it, and it just pisses me off immensley. I'm not in any hurry to lose my virginity, I don't want to have sex just so I can contribute to their conversation, I just don't like how it's the focus of my household. And I'm in for another year of living with these people, what have I got myself into?
Depressed Qui is depressed.
~Nya-ha!~ blaugh
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Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 5:39 pm
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Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 6:19 pm
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Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 6:54 pm
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Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 9:15 pm
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Posted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 11:39 pm
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 1:30 am
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I was about to go off because I thought that you were all, ho-hum poor me I haven't had sex yet and I am twenty-one. BUT YOU WEREN'T THANK GOD. comfy please learn to read the whole thread...please read the whole thread...don't jump to conclusions...lalallala.
ANYWAY. Yeah, I am in the same boat as you: 21 and a virgin. I am planning on saving it for marriage, and who knows when I'll get married lol or if I ever will. I am sure sex is great, but having never touched a man, or a man never touched me, I simply cannot understand completely what I am missing and I don't crave it since I've never had it. So, I can be in a relationship without having sex real well, and have been.
I actually get kinda scared now that no guy will stick around with me because I won't have sex with them until I am married...
I don't really mind when people only talk about sex. I have kind of gotten used to it since my aunt is a strumpet for lack of a better word, and I mean that with the most love and respect. She has had sex with many, many men. Her and I are a lot alike, so she refuses to believe I will be able to hold out until marriage. I actually think she prefers I didn't because she loves to hear raunchy stories.
I personally think it's really cool to know that there are people my age who are also virgins. It's not like we're freaks of nature, or red-headed step children. So, I tip my hat to you, and hope that your friends can think of better topics to talk about other than sex.
YOU COULD ALWAYS TALK ABOUT TRUE BLOOD!!! WOOOO!!!! btw Charlaine's main character--Sookie--is a total babe and she was a virgin until she was 26, and so far she's only had sex with 3 people. PUT THAT IN YOUR PIPE AND SMOKE IT, SOCIETY.
omg i rambled so much
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 4:06 am
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 5:51 am
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Posted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 3:16 pm
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