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 Posted: Fri Aug 20, 2010 4:50 am
okay, i know is a typical problem of girls but i really want to get some advice for it.. redface Here it is, I have this huge crush on my classmate. I always blush whenever I see him(always cause he is my classmate in all my subjects) or when he is near me. And some of my guy classmates already noticed it. I really act silly when he is near so I guess it couldn't be helped when sooner or later, someone will notice. But the real problem is that even though he is my classmate, I HAVEN'T TALKED TO HIM YET, because he would only notice me when I have to collect something that our teachers ask me to do. And after that, it would be like I do not exist anymore.. crying He is one of those quiet ones in the class and does not talk to just anybody who does not talk to him first. And I'm also the same.. So what do i do? The next semester is already getting nearer, and according to my sister, once the next sem starts, you will have a set of different classmates according to the dates when you enrolled, that is how we will be grouped as a class again.. I want to become friends with him before it comes but is too shy to approach him. WHAT TO DO?
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Posted: Fri Aug 20, 2010 9:52 am
well......im kinda the same way.....
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so what yo ucan do....take a moment to realise how much youd miss out on if you dont talk to him......then when hes not too busy go over and just try to talk to him.......try to keep your composure as much as you can...i know its hard but you will have to try......if you manage to become simple freinds try sharing stuff and giving gifts......but do it with your other freinds, too, or else he will get suspicious.....try to find common intrests to talk about....be there for him when hes upset........stuff like that.......i liked a guy and i did that and we became great freinds......just try it out see if it works
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Posted: Fri Aug 20, 2010 11:38 am
Be Bubbly! With people who don't talk too much...you'll usually find that they have tons to say once they can open up to you!! Be bubbly, randomly go over to him when there's a chance....and lead him in a conversation where you ask him a lot of questions and include a whole bunch about you! Then add him on facebook or something and smile at him in the hallways at school...and when the next chance comes, talk to him casually.
Have fun with it! I hope it goes well for you....guys will respond to girls who are confident (or fake confidence!!) ... You can do it, he's probably way worth whatever you're nervous about!
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Posted: Fri Aug 20, 2010 7:13 pm
XxMeryl SilverburghxX well......im kinda the same way..... ok so what yo ucan do....take a moment to realise how much youd miss out on if you dont talk to him......then when hes not too busy go over and just try to talk to him.......try to keep your composure as much as you can...i know its hard but you will have to try......if you manage to become simple freinds try sharing stuff and giving gifts......but do it with your other freinds, too, or else he will get suspicious.....try to find common intrests to talk about....be there for him when hes upset........stuff like that.......i liked a guy and i did that and we became great freinds......just try it out see if it works
I don't know if this counts as missing him but whenever he gets absent, I feel really down. I want to try to talk to him but I don't know what to talk to him about.
But still, thank you for the advice!
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Posted: Fri Aug 20, 2010 7:21 pm
viper_353 Be Bubbly! With people who don't talk too much...you'll usually find that they have tons to say once they can open up to you!! Be bubbly, randomly go over to him when there's a chance....and lead him in a conversation where you ask him a lot of questions and include a whole bunch about you! Then add him on facebook or something and smile at him in the hallways at school...and when the next chance comes, talk to him casually. Have fun with it! I hope it goes well for you....guys will respond to girls who are confident (or fake confidence!!) ... You can do it, he's probably way worth whatever you're nervous about! I am always bubbly but then when it comes to guys, I have a hard time showing it. Oh, and I have occassionally approached him but it is just to return his test papers and seatworks. I get really nervous with only just that but I smile when I have done it blaugh . And the adding him in facebook, I can't make myself to do it but I see that many girls add him. *sigh* But thanks for the advice! smile
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Posted: Fri Aug 20, 2010 7:45 pm
here's what i would do. just do other ways for him to notice u. like answer questions teacher asks and i walways do this..
bump in to him and jsut apoligize. try doing it and knock soem stuff out. LOL
and be like, HEY ur in my class! lol and jsut start talking (:
and maybe, " can i get ur number incase i'm absent for school assignments? " etc. hope that helped ;D
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Posted: Sun Aug 22, 2010 1:52 am
ShannonOhNoes here's what i would do. just do other ways for him to notice u. like answer questions teacher asks and i walways do this.. bump in to him and jsut apoligize. try doing it and knock soem stuff out. LOL and be like, HEY ur in my class! lol and jsut start talking (: and maybe, " can i get ur number incase i'm absent for school assignments? " etc. hope that helped ;D thanks for the advice! I hope I can do those things.. even though, I don't really get absent redface
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