It's not what you do

[oni-no-kori]

or what you say


Its how you do the things you do that define who you are  

[LA Trunks]

Actually, it is your nature and your nurture that define who you are. It is the society that you live in and who you are born as that decide who you are. You can raise from being a pauper to being a prince, but you can't take the pauper out of the prince that you might become (which is not always a bad thing).