So I finally found a girl who I ACTUALLY have feelings for. The problem? These feelings are coming so fast I don't know how to cope with them. All I want to do is talk to her, think about her, be with her, talk ABOUT her, etc... I have to stop myself from annoying MYSELF. It's been two years since a girl has got me this worked up, and we aren't even a real couple yet. Every time I have tried to contact her today I feel like I am annoying her... even though she asked me out. But am I just a lovesick puppy or is this normal? I've only known her two days and I already can't stop thinking about her... it was never this way with my last ex girlfriend.
Posted: Fri Dec 31, 2010 9:32 am
i cant help u exactly, two exs ago i fell madly in love right away. i never believed in love at first sight but it was and still is love. ive been in love one other time, and that was my first and only bf. i felt great when i was around him. i still have feelings for him but he doesnt like me as a friend or other wise. as for my ex. she recently told me she doesnt have feelings for me anymore. and im transfemale. so i really couldnt be the guy she would want/need
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Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 12:01 am
I always realize with myself, and I reallyyy need to stop doing this.
When I really start to like someone, I always, ALWAYS! Worry that I'm annoying them when I really am not. I even ask the girl if I'm annoying them... and I shouldn't.
Here's my advice though, don't act so nervous. It's normal to be a lovesickpuppy. But try your best not to show it to her, at least not right now. You can tell her how much you like her. I think she likes you, I mean she asked you out. :]