[Darkness Dragons Revenge]

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[Mika-Chuin]

"Dear... no. That is not called love. You have a fangirl-obsession." =_=;;;  

[Eva queen of the vampires]

I don't have much time...

Aww, hun! I know exactly how you feel! It is indeed, as Tomei says, an obsession, is it not?

God knows I've had enough of those myself...my first one was with a television actor, so it wasn't quite so hard. It faded with time, but when I see him in something, I still smile. Admittedly, I've never dreamt about kissing him (let's not go into the dream with my Chemistry teacher now), but he did feature in a fair few.

You'll be okay hun, just let it take it's own course. As for not dating anyone, don't worry about it! I'm 15, I've had one boyrfriend when I was a bit older than you and that was a DISASTER. So really, don't worry about it!

So I'll be brief.

 

[loser-by-choice]

Welcome to the land of fandom. But you should try dating real people. When you are older. Because at this age, all the boys are morons. (been there, done that.) BTW, you are only 13. It is very very normal that you don't have anyone else in your love life. Cause teenage boys are stupid. And shallow. The dreams... ya. Normal. Hormones will do that to you. Ahh. Wet dreams. Brings back good memories. Though mine wasn't from an anime. He was from a movie.  

[RowenthaDark]

ah, yea, i had a gaara crush not to long ago...but i have moved on to greener and more promising yet sad pastures...

i have a crush on Pein....the Deva path. and knowing that he dies in the end sucks!!!  

[Arkadiusz Caelum]

Tomei of the Wolves

"Dear... no. That is not called love. You have a fangirl-obsession." =_=;;;

Somewhere out there,

^ ...o_o

There's this tree with star-shaped fruit.

 

[Xallus]

Nothing wrong with liking fictional characters that were made to be superior to others in real life.

It's a crush, you're 13, and come light of recent events surrounding fandoms in general...your parents and friends would rather you learn to love others that can love you back. Why they want a 13 year old to look for a boyfriend is beyond me, but I really just don't know enough about your social life or personality to come up with a proper response.

I've madly crushed on anime characters(and still do) even though I'm engaged to someone fully aware of it all.

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As long as you can properly communicate with others in a crisis and not rely on your imaginary friend, I find nothing wrong with it.  

[Meru Kaname]

It's normal for girls to 'fall in love' with anime characters. You're young, so having this crush on Gaara will not affect you in the future.

loser-by-choice is right, when boys are in their teenage years, they're stupid and shallow. When you're older, you'll understand that Gaara is a person that maybe your ideal type, but there are VERY few guys that have his quality... unless of course you start dating a serial killer and try taming him, but I recommend you not doing that.  

[Silver Sanctuaries]

Anime crushes aren't necessarily a bad thing ^^ For example, I have a huge crush on an anime character as well. Don't worry hun. Your sand prince is always with you in your dreams~ =3 Just look forward to sleeping. Every time you meet him in your sleep, pretend it's a date! Eventually someone else will fall for you who is like him in a way! That's what I believe!

 

[Citrus Hikaru]

Yep, I've had loves like that...And it sucks that they'll never be real...Sometimes you might find a guy that looks like him (although I've never seen someone who looks like Gaara wandering the streets...) but hey, ya never know!
And I think that love can be felt for an anime character, and if other people say it's not love...then they just don't know. And I thought I'd never fall for a real guy...but I did. haha...Because you know how love feels like, that means it can happen for real men too.  

[Darkness Dragons Revenge]

omg, sry guys. i left my account logged in, and my sister got on and wrote this.... omfg -.-
i dont leave my account on anymore.
sry about all this trouble!!!! sweatdrop