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Tristin Lee

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 3:54 pm
Ok so my Ex is on One hand really sweet and he makes me laugh and on the other hand he is ALWAYS down on himself and says he's not worth s**t and just says these horrible things about himself and to get to the point he tells me his gonna off himself and it pisses me off so much cause i don't wanna hear that kinda s**t cause i already got enough drama in my life i really don't need that too. so what do I need to do i mean do i just give up and move on or what?


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Bubble Goth MoonChild  
PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 3:58 pm
I'd just try to make him stop being down on himself^^ if you can get him to stop that then it'll be easier on you and him  

Kuchisake-Onna Kitsune


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 4:05 pm
Therapy is the only solution

and unless there's some kind of mental or physical abuse

only someone in the relationship can choose what to do, no one can tell you, as it is impossible to explain how deep the emotinal is  
PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 4:28 pm
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Therapy is the only solution

and unless there's some kind of mental or physical abuse

only someone in the relationship can choose what to do, no one can tell you, as it is impossible to explain how deep the emotinal is

from experience therapy don't work for a damn crap^^ only friends did  

Kuchisake-Onna Kitsune


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 4:34 pm
Kuchisake-Onna Kitsune
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Therapy is the only solution

and unless there's some kind of mental or physical abuse

only someone in the relationship can choose what to do, no one can tell you, as it is impossible to explain how deep the emotinal is

from experience therapy don't work for a damn crap^^ only friends did

from my experience you're dead wrong, but what ever floats your boat  
PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 5:59 pm
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Kuchisake-Onna Kitsune
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Therapy is the only solution

and unless there's some kind of mental or physical abuse

only someone in the relationship can choose what to do, no one can tell you, as it is impossible to explain how deep the emotinal is

from experience therapy don't work for a damn crap^^ only friends did

from my experience you're dead wrong, but what ever floats your boat

How can you tell someone they are wrong? You weren't in their shoes and I never said it was wrong I said it didn't work^^ no need to be harsh about it  

Kuchisake-Onna Kitsune


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 6:16 pm
Kuchisake-Onna Kitsune
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Kuchisake-Onna Kitsune
Pent and Ten
Therapy is the only solution

and unless there's some kind of mental or physical abuse

only someone in the relationship can choose what to do, no one can tell you, as it is impossible to explain how deep the emotinal is

from experience therapy don't work for a damn crap^^ only friends did

from my experience you're dead wrong, but what ever floats your boat

How can you tell someone they are wrong? You weren't in their shoes and I never said it was wrong I said it didn't work^^ no need to be harsh about it

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 7:54 pm
Another Moonchild AMAZING i LOVE Kerli granted she has nothing to do with the situation. what i say is tell how when he says stuff like that the way it makes you feel and keep trying to build him up and if he keeps doing i suggest leaving the relationship as platonic
 

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Tristin Lee

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 7:59 pm
xd mrgreen OMG Kerli is amazing! and thanx guys for all the advice! but i think i am just done with him i mean he is my ex after all and whenever i talk to him about how it makes me feel like s**t when he talks about himself like that he acusses me of yelling at him when i just talk like i'm talking now. so i think i'm just done but again thatnk you all for the advice it was really helpful! 3nodding

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Bubble Goth MoonChild  
PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 8:03 pm
glad to help and yes she is. i like her more than i like Lady GaGa and that's really saying something  

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