Someone Who Will Remain Anonymous
I love Igtenos' advice. It's short, sweet, and to the point. No beating around the bush. It may sound like he's slapping you in the face or spitting at your feet, but it's really for your own good. It's bluntly honest, yet insightful. He should be a school counselor. Or a drill sergeant.
Awww. You crazy Fr;s~ I love you too heart
Background: I've dealt with many LGBT-related experiences in my past (ranging from anti-gay protests, suicide attempts, same-sex relationships, identity issues, etc). And, ironically, I WAS in the U.S. Army [and also the Fire Department], which explains my strictness and straight-forwardness. And I actually do counsel other LGBT students within my school's GSA; some members have jokingly given me the nickname "Doc."
I just wanted to give some truth, because I understand that my advice can really sound like I'm a total douchebag.
So yeah. I'm glad I could be of service.