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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 10:12 am
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Hello everyone! My name is Kevin, but you can call me Ikari if you'd like. I'm new here so please bare with me. This isn't something I normally like to talk about, especially in front of complete strangers. I only recently within the past month started admitting it to friends. So far though, none of them have ridiculed me and they have all been supportive. Lately, I've been thinking I'm transgendered. When I look back on the past it makes a lot of sense. As a child I never conformed to the appropriate gender roles for males. I use to go around wearing a dress, playing with dolls, etc. I much preferred it over sports, roughhousing, and getting dirty. For some reason my entire life, I've always felt uncomfortable around other males. I'm nothing like them. As weird as it sounds, I'm repulsed by males, even my own self. On the other hand though, whereas I'm repulsed by males, I greatly admire females. I admire them from there anatomical structure, to there personalities. I have far more feminine characteristics than I do masculine ones, especially on the emotional level. I like to joke that the only thing making me male is my Y chromosome. I was unfortunately born with very masculine features from my broad shoulders to my chin. I've also had strange desires in the past to wear female clothing, and around the age of 13/14, for reasons I'm unsure of, the idea of getting a sex reassignment surgery crossed my mind. Of course I would never go through with it though. I have a personal philosophy against mutilating one's body. I don't even believe in piercings and tattoos. I also would not consider taking hormones, mainly because of possible complications it could cause with my Crohn's Disease and the infusions and medications I receive for it. I haven't ruled out the possibility of wearing female clothing one day, once I have my own place, at least under my male clothing. I come from a strongly conservative family so this isn't something you ever mention around them. I've only recently after several years, started thinking about this again. My friends say if I really am transgendered though, that I'm a peculiar case, because even having desires to become female, I'm still sexually attracted to only females. My friend used the analogy of a lesbian stuck in a guys body to describe it. I'm not sure what to really think. The other day I spent three hours typing up my thoughts on it in a writing I titled, "Who am I?". All logical indications though suggest that I am probably transgendered. My friends say it's not a bad thing, but being conservative myself, it conflicts with everything I stand for.
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 4:36 pm
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 4:41 pm
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 4:46 pm
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 4:49 pm
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 5:15 pm
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 5:52 pm
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If you are still unsure, i suggest you do research. Like you, since an early age i knew i didnt fit the guy "mold". I never knew there was a word for how i felt. like when i was little, 95% of my friends were girls. I loved to play barbie, house, school. Now growing up, i didnt have any male teachers, until fifth grade. so i would always be the teacher. During reccess, there was always a boys vs girls variation of tag. and i would constatnly betray the boys and side with the girls. In high school, while doing a video project for history, my group needed another girl. So i was drafted so to speak. i "tried" to get out of it. Anyways, one of my friends told me he is transgender ftm. so i told him, i often feel like I'm a women in a man's body. so he told me to do some research. BTW, ftm means female to male. Just in case you don't know
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 6:06 pm
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Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2011 8:34 am
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Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2011 9:13 am
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Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2011 9:30 am
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Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2011 9:38 am
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Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2011 9:49 am
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Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2011 9:58 am
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Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2011 10:28 am
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