Ok I am 32 , white , female. And I loooove and lust asian men. I have a Asian baby daddy, and we are in 9th year of being a couple with two awesome kids. Here's the issue, because of kids of course the sex schedule is way off. We get some when we are lucky. And when we are even lucky he sometimes has no energy for it. Well I havent went looking for another dude other than trying to find the elusive straight male asian porn star that does white women online. I found him and his name is Keni Styles. He is hot .And mentally perfect.But I am constantly on his website lucky asian guy. Is this a problem? Tell me your opinion.confused
Posted: Sun Apr 03, 2011 3:28 pm
Yes: There's obviously a stronger attraction, given at this point strictly sexual to other guy. It pretty much in some sense can be considered cheating. As those say: Lust is sin and thus cheating? Another problem I see is that you say that you are constantly on the website to be with him, It could be becoming a sex addiction if that's what your constantly doing with him, or it could become something more because you're becoming more attached to him the longer you spend with him. This extra time you spend with him cuts out of family time, family life and just time with an overly busy boyfriend baby daddy. I would suggest other ways to masterbation including some toys if that will help. But maybe just asian porn is the way to go and instead of spending it with 1 guy, try a porno video of asian guys or pictures or stuffs. That way it's not always 1 guy that cuts into your relationship.
No: Both of you are busy a lot and there's very little time for the need fulfilling sex that one desires. I do happen to firmly believe in masterbation as a way to meet one's needs and not have it count as cheating. If one can't perform then that's when the aides come into the bed room and make it interesting.
So It cuts either way. I hope you figure out what's best for you. If I were you personally, I would try to keep the baby's daddy around to support me and the kids and make him permanent even if things are tight right now and there's less time for sex. As I imagine, Sex happens again in a marriage when the kids hit 13 or around middle/high school when they can go to friends and sleep overs and practices or are just out of the house more.
Thank you so much you responded perfectly. I felt like it was getting a tad unhealthy. But in my defense I only did the online thing during my as I call it personal time. But I was focusing more on that than even excercising which i should be doing. But where it concerns the baby daddy its also emotional issues as well. To many to count. But I appreciate it, your advice will help me get to a more content place in my life. Again thank you.3nodding
Posted: Mon Apr 04, 2011 7:53 pm
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Thank you so much you responded perfectly. I felt like it was getting a tad unhealthy. But in my defense I only did the online thing during my as I call it personal time. But I was focusing more on that than even excercising which i should be doing. But where it concerns the baby daddy its also emotional issues as well. To many to count. But I appreciate it, your advice will help me get to a more content place in my life. Again thank you.3nodding
No problem :3 I hope you find the right balance of masterbatory stimulus and family time and all that fun stuffs :3 It can be tough to break old habits but with practice and help it can work.
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