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Posted: Mon Apr 04, 2011 5:41 pm
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Posted: Mon Apr 04, 2011 6:25 pm
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Posted: Thu Apr 07, 2011 11:56 pm
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 7:55 pm
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Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2011 5:49 am
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Posted: Wed Apr 20, 2011 7:01 am
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Posted: Fri Apr 29, 2011 2:54 pm
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Posted: Thu May 05, 2011 6:58 pm
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Posted: Thu May 05, 2011 7:09 pm
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I can't say never, but my experience is rather more limited than anyone else I know in real life, and I'm 29. Not counting my brother, who's never dated in any way, shape, or form, and he's 26 as well. Personally, I think it's more important to be happy with who you are than to hook up with somebody you may not be compatible with. Everyone I know is looking desperately for someone to be with, just to have someone to be with, or already married with two or three kids, even the punk girl I knew in college. I find it kind of sad. I am content with my life. Certainly, there are things I'd like to improve, but shoehorning someone else into my lifestyle would not be the way to do that.
Prince Darialan Love 33 and still wanting at least one date. Not so much shy as much as being socially clumsy and awkward and not knowing what to say and everything. I have AS. If that is you in your sig, Darialan, you are awesome for having a Perry on your shoulder. eek
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Posted: Mon Jun 27, 2011 11:17 pm
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Posted: Mon Jun 27, 2011 11:53 pm
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Posted: Tue Jun 28, 2011 1:06 am
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o8Orobouros8o Maybe focus on getting a one nighter before a date? That's some of the most terrible advice in this thread. Pushing aside that I have a different view on dating than you, this advice is still terrible because in the long run, nothing is gained from it. It's only a temporary fix and any satisfaction to be had from the experience will wear off in no time. On top of that, knowing you were "one of -those- people" that went for one night stands could very well scare away those that might have been interested in being more than a one-nighter. {Although, I've found there are also some women who find it attractive, so I guess it can go either way. Men, on the other hand, generally don't tend to find one-nighting women very attractive unless he just wants a one-nighter from her.}
And because one night stands and dating require different approaches, if one only knows how to pick up a one night stand, that isn't going to help them when they are ready to start dating. They could end up with poor judgement as far as being able to pick out someone worth keeping around goes, and/or will try to rush things, making the relationship burn out before it even truly gets started.
I know very well that being a one-nighter kind of person by no means necessarily ruins your future {given you don't end up with some kind of incurable disease from it}, but in the context of someone inquiring about dating, one night stands are not going to help them. At most, it might make them feel better for a short while until it sinks in that they'll have to pick up someone else if they want it again, which of course could turn into something like an addiction really quick. After that, it may eventually occur to them that they have to keep picking up different people because no one person wants to stick around, and then in the end feel just as bad if not worse about themselves because they'll think it's due to them being unlikeable as far as connecting with someone emotionally goes.
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Considering I've currently got a character in Geezerville doing one-nighters, posting this now is kind of ironic rofl
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Posted: Tue Jun 28, 2011 11:22 am
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Posted: Tue Jun 28, 2011 12:43 pm
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