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Posted: Sat May 07, 2011 8:21 pm
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Apparently, according to my friend, Im overly nice, in a sense that I will hurt myself (emotionally and mentally) just to make sure another person is not. I always put others before myself (I will stay and listen to a friend when they trouble for the entire night up to the next day, even if I have sa major test the next day...not like I study or sleep anyway), and have trouble saying no (to helping with simple tasks or favors). She claims that I'm too chivalrous.
Of course, I know that there is not a sinlge human being out there that is not selfish, in some aspect, me included. I can be a total b***h, at times. But, my friends says that I'm not selfish enough when it comes to my personal happiness or time.
Is that okay? It's just the way I am. I treat people with respect when they need it...only it kinda takes its toll on me, sometimes.
What would you consider being "too nice"?
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Posted: Sat May 07, 2011 9:17 pm
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Posted: Sat May 07, 2011 10:15 pm
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Posted: Sun May 08, 2011 9:15 am
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Posted: Sun May 08, 2011 4:39 pm
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Don't judge me Just love me. I'm not a criminal, I'm innocent So come and set me free!
I'm pretty much exactly like that. I can be a b***h, and I don't have a hard time saying "no" But when someone has a problem, I listen. No matter what.
And when I have a problem, sure I wanna talk about it.. But if my friend has a problem too.. i say "Screw my problem." cause their problems are more important to me than mine.... O_o
Though, yeah.. in some cases, it can hurt you, actually... it's hurt me a few times... Cause one of my friends was talking about a problem that I could relate to... so i said so, and she didn't want to hear it :/ Probably cause I never act like i have a problem, nor do i even talk about it to anyone. Anyway, we got into a fight over it... and then later we got into a fight about how I never talk about my problems...
So, yes, it's good to be that way... but sometimes it can hurt you...
I choose ecstasy. And music's my religion. Magic is my kingdom And the dance floor is my heaven.
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Posted: Sun May 08, 2011 4:49 pm
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Posted: Sun May 08, 2011 4:55 pm
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--Untoten Kase-- Don't judge me Just love me. I'm not a criminal, I'm innocent So come and set me free!I'm pretty much exactly like that. I can be a b***h, and I don't have a hard time saying "no" But when someone has a problem, I listen. No matter what.
And when I have a problem, sure I wanna talk about it.. But if my friend has a problem too.. i say "Screw my problem." cause their problems are more important to me than mine.... O_o
Though, yeah.. in some cases, it can hurt you, actually... it's hurt me a few times... Cause one of my friends was talking about a problem that I could relate to... so i said so, and she didn't want to hear it :/ Probably cause I never act like i have a problem, nor do i even talk about it to anyone. Anyway, we got into a fight over it... and then later we got into a fight about how I never talk about my problems...
So, yes, it's good to be that way... but sometimes it can hurt you... I choose ecstasy. And music's my religion. Magic is my kingdom And the dance floor is my heaven.
Yeah, I hear ya. My friends cme to me to talk all the time. It's a good thing that I don't seem to have as many problems as them, lol. But the occasional ones do come, and when they hit, they hit like a train wreck. :/
I tend to hide my emotions and problems. A lot. Even when I'm unhappy or tired, I don't show it. My general mindst is "oh well. I'll get over it."
It's great to be the strong one for everyone. But even the strong have their limits...
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Posted: Sun May 08, 2011 5:16 pm
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DeathStarXII --Untoten Kase-- Don't judge me Just love me. I'm not a criminal, I'm innocent So come and set me free!I'm pretty much exactly like that. I can be a b***h, and I don't have a hard time saying "no" But when someone has a problem, I listen. No matter what.
And when I have a problem, sure I wanna talk about it.. But if my friend has a problem too.. i say "Screw my problem." cause their problems are more important to me than mine.... O_o
Though, yeah.. in some cases, it can hurt you, actually... it's hurt me a few times... Cause one of my friends was talking about a problem that I could relate to... so i said so, and she didn't want to hear it :/ Probably cause I never act like i have a problem, nor do i even talk about it to anyone. Anyway, we got into a fight over it... and then later we got into a fight about how I never talk about my problems...
So, yes, it's good to be that way... but sometimes it can hurt you... I choose ecstasy. And music's my religion. Magic is my kingdom And the dance floor is my heaven. Yeah, I hear ya. My friends cme to me to talk all the time. It's a good thing that I don't seem to have as many problems as them, lol. But the occasional ones do come, and when they hit, they hit like a train wreck. :/
I tend to hide my emotions and problems. A lot. Even when I'm unhappy or tired, I don't show it. My general mindst is "oh well. I'll get over it."
It's great to be the strong one for everyone. But even the strong have their limits... Don't judge me Just love me. I'm not a criminal, I'm innocent So come and set me free!
Mhmm... I practically hide everything i feel that isn't happiness... You just need to be careful... the people you do this to will get used to it, and just won't like hearing your problems..
Just let them out bit by bit, or talk about them occasionally.... That's what I do so nothing really bad happens...
I choose ecstasy. And music's my religion. Magic is my kingdom And the dance floor is my heaven.
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Posted: Sun May 08, 2011 5:23 pm
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--Untoten Kase-- DeathStarXII --Untoten Kase-- Don't judge me Just love me. I'm not a criminal, I'm innocent So come and set me free!I'm pretty much exactly like that. I can be a b***h, and I don't have a hard time saying "no" But when someone has a problem, I listen. No matter what.
And when I have a problem, sure I wanna talk about it.. But if my friend has a problem too.. i say "Screw my problem." cause their problems are more important to me than mine.... O_o
Though, yeah.. in some cases, it can hurt you, actually... it's hurt me a few times... Cause one of my friends was talking about a problem that I could relate to... so i said so, and she didn't want to hear it :/ Probably cause I never act like i have a problem, nor do i even talk about it to anyone. Anyway, we got into a fight over it... and then later we got into a fight about how I never talk about my problems...
So, yes, it's good to be that way... but sometimes it can hurt you... I choose ecstasy. And music's my religion. Magic is my kingdom And the dance floor is my heaven. Yeah, I hear ya. My friends cme to me to talk all the time. It's a good thing that I don't seem to have as many problems as them, lol. But the occasional ones do come, and when they hit, they hit like a train wreck. :/
I tend to hide my emotions and problems. A lot. Even when I'm unhappy or tired, I don't show it. My general mindst is "oh well. I'll get over it."
It's great to be the strong one for everyone. But even the strong have their limits... Don't judge me Just love me. I'm not a criminal, I'm innocent So come and set me free!Mhmm... I practically hide everything i feel that isn't happiness... You just need to be careful... the people you do this to will get used to it, and just won't like hearing your problems..
Just let them out bit by bit, or talk about them occasionally.... That's what I do so nothing really bad happens... I choose ecstasy. And music's my religion. Magic is my kingdom And the dance floor is my heaven.
Thanks :]
I know there are people who will actually listen to me. I just don't like showing my emotions. Instead, I express them through my art. Its a lot easier for me. And of course, my art is rather dark. But at least my friends understand and are used to it. :3
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Posted: Sun May 08, 2011 7:24 pm
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Posted: Mon May 09, 2011 2:26 am
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Posted: Mon May 09, 2011 4:28 am
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2016 5:59 pm
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