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Posted: Sat Jun 04, 2011 11:10 pm
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2011 7:19 am
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2011 8:16 am
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Gordums Well first of all, many individuals who are intersex tend not to disclose that information right off the bat. You'd best be trying a more populated area than instead of this guild. At the same time, many people would feel extremely doubtful of your intentions, so it's a matter of trust. Also, there are different variations of intersex - depending on what gender they identify with. It's important to almost look beyond gender and seek a hermaphrodite, rather than the actual person. Hm, you're very right about that. I mean, I know that there are people who still don't feel as comfortable as others. I was just hoping that maybe that kind of person would stop by and take a look here. As for my intentions, obviously I don't have any bad ones, but I guess no one is going to know that unless I say it, and even then, I'd understand if someone didn't trust me enough. So yeah, guess I'm sorry for kind of putting them on the spot. I was only planning on just getting to know them. I didn't plan farther ahead yet.
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2011 8:24 am
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2011 8:31 am
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2011 8:41 am
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2011 8:44 am
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2011 8:55 am
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Tao Yoshi I wasn't intending on treating them like an object. I just felt that maybe some people felt more comfortable on the internet rather than in real life talking about things like this. Regardless, I presented myself wrongly and I apologize for it and any inconveniences I may have caused by this. I'm sorry if I came across as rude. Maybe some people will be really opened to it- but look at it like this, if you came in here and wrote:
"I've been wanting to date a ****** for a while now, but I don't really think there are any at my school right now. I was just wondering that if anyone in this guild is a ****** (and please don't joke about it), then maybe we could talk or something, just to get to know each other. So how about it?"
I mean- it's a physical aspect of someone, and the term you used is really charged, accepted by some- loathed by others. It's a small physical characteristic that while it can be important, people are more than the sum of it- so while I think your intentions were good, and I won't speak for anyone else- I think making friends with people because you like who they are, not what they are is important.
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2011 9:45 am
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