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Him says (7:45 PM)
what ya doin?

Me says (7:45 PM)
Hii
Chillaxin
you?

Him says (7:45 PM)
still waiting for cabal to download and see if it will actually work this time

Me said (7:46 PM)
Ah
Whatcha do today?

Him says (7:47 PM)
sat around wtahced a few naruto episodes of shippuden up untill what was released only 215 -.- and watched different mmohut videos trying to find games i could try

Me said (7:48 PM)
Ah.
What time didcha wake up?

Him says (7:52 PM)
i already told you >->

Me said (7:53 PM)
...?
I dont recall
o-o;

Him says (7:55 PM)
>_>
wtf?

Him says (7:56 PM)


whole convo since we started talking >->
also FINALLY got cabal working i just needed to dl the EU version >->

Me said (7:56 PM)
i dont see any time of awakening

Him says (7:57 PM)
... -.-
i dont remember when i got up -.-

Him says (7:58 PM)
and you didnt ASK THAT you asked what i did today not what time i got up >->

Me said (8:03 PM)
Then you missread...?
After you speech I asked what time you woke up and you claimed you already told me

Him says (8:04 PM)
no im serious i copy and pasted EVERYTHING YOU SAID and i didnt see s**t
like i said UP THERE i copy and pasted what we said since we started talking

Me said (8:04 PM)


The last words.

Me said (8:05 PM)
I asked and then you said you already told me

Him says (8:05 PM)
well what it says to me is what ya do today so w/e

Him says (8:14 PM)
also i would like to say THANKS for calling me and telling me you were ditching me and letting me sit here and wait for you

Me says (8:21 PM)
What the hell? I SAID i was coming over after my test but i had no idea my parents wanted to celebrate nor did I know how long it would take

Me says (8:22 PM)
Geez, whats up your a**?

Him says (8:28 PM)
well what you cant call me just leaving me in the dark

Me says (8:29 PM)
I figured you were sleeping.
You're USALLY sleeping at 6pm >->

Him says (8:29 PM)
oh yea of course im sleeping at 5pm after i went to bed at 11pm last night

Me says (8:29 PM)
Hey, you were drunk

Me says (8:30 PM)
I'm not phycic!!

Him says (8:30 PM)
well w/e

Me says (8:31 PM)
Why are you in such a nausty mood today?

Him says (8:32 PM)
cause i was looking forward to cuddleing with you today just like laying there with you but ya know no call or anything i could have went down to my moms and helped her with her mouse she has been trying to get me down to do for like A MONTH

Me says (8:33 PM)
Heck, I'd go over right now but I CANTT
Well
I could walk

Him says (8:33 PM)
nope
i wont let you anyways
stay home

Me says (8:34 PM)
why wont you let me?

Him says (8:36 PM)
cause if you came over you would be here for like 5 mins then have to leave and i would have to walk you home cause i dont want you walking home alone in the dark

Me says (8:38 PM)
....

Me says (8:39 PM)
Then if you know I cant come over then why are you getting mad at me?

Him says (8:39 PM)
...
what did i just say up there
YOU DIDNT CALL
you just left me hanging

Me says (8:40 PM)
Here. Tomorrow.
I'll stay over till 11:45
& I'll drive home

Me says (8:41 PM)
Where do I park though?

Him says (8:41 PM)
idk i think my dad always parks in the apt #8 spot

Me says (8:41 PM)
kays

Him says (8:45 PM)
so yea nvm about the apt #8 spot its not marked cause our super teneants are stupid ******** so call me before you come over and i will show you were to park

Me says (8:48 PM)
Kay...
Are you less pissed now? >->

Him says (8:50 PM)
kinda still pissed you didnt call though -.-

Me says (8:51 PM)
URgh

Him says (8:51 PM)
well i really hate it when people do that to me its a d**k move

Me says (8:53 PM)
Well, I'mma d**k

Him says (8:54 PM)
i didnt say that i HATE IT when you turn my words arround FFS

Me says (8:54 PM)
Well
You dont think I already feel like s**t?
you sure made me feel that way

Him says (8:54 PM)
well im sorry but you ditched me without even a call

Me says (8:55 PM)
...

Him says (8:56 PM)
i was just sayin

Me says (9:00 PM)
what are you doing now..

Him says (9:01 PM)
eating beef patties

Me says (9:02 PM)
ah

Him says (9:25 PM)
so what are YOU doing

Me says (9:25 PM)
Sitting here...
You?

Him says (9:25 PM)
same

Me says (9:27 PM)
you have to be doing something else besides sitting there
I'm watching minute to win it

Him says (9:28 PM)
i watched the jackass one earlier and im trying to join momomesh but i need a cred card ffs

Me says (9:28 PM)
momomesh?

Him says (9:29 PM)
do you have any of mine or your empty prepaid cards laying around?
its free but i need a cred card number
and its a movie site

Me says (9:29 PM)
Uhh..
No?
They're all in the garbage

Him says (9:30 PM)
dang k

Me says (9:32 PM)
You know whats awesome?

Him says (9:32 PM)
what?

Me says (9:32 PM)
That i only have 6 days of school :3

Him says (9:32 PM)
including tomorrow?

Me says (9:33 PM)
Yupp

Him says (9:33 PM)
ah ok
well good for you

Me says (9:35 PM)
Geez, you sound pissy again...

Him says (9:36 PM)
i was serious jesus >->

Me says (9:36 PM)
Kay. Just those words are usually used in a saucy way

Him says (9:37 PM)
well not this time -,-

Me says (9:37 PM)
Kay

Him says (9:46 PM)
wtf does toesj mean? o.O

Me says (9:46 PM)
what do you mean?
toesj?
o-o;

Him says (9:46 PM)
(Cousin Name) commented toes j! on your driving status

Me says (9:47 PM)
Nooo idea
o-o;

Him says (9:47 PM)
seriously she wouldnt say it if you didnt know what it ment what does it mean >->

Me says (9:49 PM)
You think I'm a liar?

Him says (9:50 PM)
there ya go putting words in my mouth again -.-
w/e
im going to bed now
bye

Me says (9:51 PM)
Well you assuming I have like a secret language with her or something
if I knew what it meant I'd tell you.
I dont have anything to hide. & I dont know why you'd think i would

Him says (9:52 PM)
well i dont trust her i dont care what she says or thinks of me for not doing so and same goes for you i trust you but not her and i dont care what you think about that

Me says (9:53 PM)
I know. & I dont care., But why would you think -I- was keeping something from you?

Him says (9:53 PM)
idk something from your past you dont want me to know

Me says (9:54 PM)
like..what exactly? o-o;

Him says (9:54 PM)
idk -.-

Me says (9:54 PM)
you must be thinking something if you brought it up

Him says (9:54 PM)
IDK I SAID OMFG

Him says (9:55 PM)
IM GOING TO BED BYE

Me said (9:55 PM)
Wow
Kay
Night
>->;
P.S. I know you're just appear offline

Him says (10:04 PM)
actually no i wasnt i was checking something before i went to bed and i came back to look and see if you said anything after i left and OH LOOK you dont trust me well wtf ever im gone bye

Me said (10:06 PM)
Excuse me? You're the one who thought I screwed my cousin and then wanted to keep it a secret or something. >->;

Him says (10:07 PM)
DID I SAY THAT NO I ******** DIDNT ******** RIGHT THE ******** OFF RIGHT NOW DONT EVEN ******** BOTHER COMMING OVER TOMORROW FOR ******** SAKES!!!!

Me said (10:10 PM)
You're breaking me heart here, buddy.

Him says (10:10 PM)
buddy eh and how the ******** do you think i feel saying that I SAID THAT YOU ******** YOUR COUSIN WTF IS THAT!

Me says (10:11 PM)
well you said hiding something from the past...& you dont trust her...?
I dunno

Him says (10:11 PM)
w/e im not talking anymore but im not going to bed bye

Me said (10:12 PM)
Woooow, ignoring me now?

Geez, this sounds like me and my ex boyfriend. Some guys are just like that I guess and they are annoying and will most likely not change.

Edit: I agree with her too ^^

This communication broke down on 4 levels-
1, you tried to tell him how he was feeling- people hate that, you also put words in his mouth.
2. He wouldn't admit when he make a mistake- bad on him.
3. He didn't talk to you in a polite way- which upset you more.
4- You pressured him after he said to stop talking to him-

If it's abusive, it's abusive on both of your parts, you did stuff wrong and so did he- but to be honest? You escalated more than he did.

You need to respect people's boundaries.

This, but I think he was just very irritable at first, but near the end you escalated more.

Personally, I'd sya breka it off.

And it's not exactly abusive since he isn't attacking you or assaulting you directly.

Also what the ******** if his mum asked him to take care of a mouse a month ago he should have done that a month ago. He sounds like all he does is watch anime and play games, but that's just me.

Agreed.

I might add that the root of the conversation was about you not calling him. That was a catalyst for the abusive language. In that respect, from what I've seen of this conversation, you really should have called him, or apologized right afterward. Alternatively, if he really was wondering what was going on, he should have called you, too.
Communication is everything!

EDIT: @Shilberu Erikku: Based on the conversation, how was the OP being impatient and how was the other guy being irresponsible? I don't see much evidence of this at all.

hmmm thats dum of him :/

I just think you two are cute and act like an old married couple. But you two need to figure out a way to communicate with one another in a way that wont set the other off and you both will be arguing over stupid s**t.