John Foxton
Alright, let's see if I understood this correctly.
your mother wants you to like girls, but you obviously don't. You have told her that you're gay, and she reacted negatively over this.
On the other hand, was she the one who told your borther you're gay? Because that is EXTREMELY insensitive of her. That is soemthing that should be exclusive to yourself.
And, if you're full-blownly gay, which you yet again obviously are, she should respect you, instead of doing what she is now, working against you.
You should sit down and talk to her, and express to her what you feel, in detail. So she understands exactly what you feel like, and how it is for you. If you do, you might be surprised how well they take it.
Yea, you got that correct. My mother keeps trying to get me to date girls. She even said I couldn't get my tongue pierced until I date my friend, and I am fully out to all of my friends as of last week. So my friend knows I don't date chicks.
Yea, my mother did tell my brother that. He told her while I was on a date actually. I got home and my mother was almost crying because of that. She was the same way when I came out to her. She never thought I was gonna tell me brother when I was actually gonna tell him that day...
Yes, I know she should but she won't. In fact my homophobic step-father respects me more then she does. At least he doesn't force me to date chicks and he was pretty cool when me and one of my exes came over.
As for the last part. I have many times, and when ever she approaches me and tells me what one of my friends she likes and thinks I should date. I tell her everything in the same tone she speaks to me in.
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