Advice on what to wear [I'll explain in a mo]

[Come on Balthazar]

Whenever i've gone out, whenever it be to Prom, Weddings or the ike; I've been forced into dresses, corsets and skirts.
As a f2m this made me really uncomfortable, angsty and depressed for the most part.

I'm going out to a friend's 19th today, it's been mentioned we're going for a meal then clubbing. Which raises the bar to no trainers and no jeans.
I asked my gaurdian for advice and she flourished a black lacy corset like top at me.
(which when i put on everyone complimented on how wonderful i looked)

So i don't know, do i stick to the lacy corset thing and put up with being uncomfortable for the night, or stick to my guns and wear something that i'll feel more comfortable in (and be able to wear a binder as well)

The reason i'm asking is becuase i've only just breached the topic of being trans to my group of friends, and i'm afriad that appearing like this, they'll think i'm only saying it for attention.  

[iSports Fanatic]

I say wear whatever it is that you think is comfortable and prefer.

If you're going to, the point is to have fun, correct? If you'll be able to be more comfortable in a certain outfit, the chances are you're going to end up having more fun, as you won't be worrying the whole time about your top.

Also, I just wanted to say, that your friends probably won't jump the gun and believe that you are just saying trans for the attention simply because you choose to wear a certain outfit over another. I'm sure they're all aware that everybody has their own opinion when it comes to clothing.
Plus, if they are truly real friends, they'll have already accepted your word for it without question.

Go in what you want, that's what I think you should do, at least ~

 

[FauxZombie]

ftm*

And yeah, wear what makes you comfortable. You should probably talk to everyone about how uncomfortable it makes you to wear dresses/skirts/looking feminine. Even if you have to become repetitive in saying how it makes you feel.  

[Yurdarkreverie]

Always be who you are comfortable being. Bottom line. Don't compromise yourself. smile