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 Posted: Thu Aug 11, 2011 6:43 pm
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I've got a big decision to make soon. It's pretty big, so I'm looking for real advice, and some help maybe. I haven't done this before (posting personal stuff) I sorta just read stuff and might comment once or twice, but today I need a bit of help.
sweatdrop
I got accepted into a for year college (yay me!) but my parents don't want me to go. They've denied helping me pay for it, and have decided that it's a really bad mistake. They believe I'm going for the wrong reasons. At first I was going for my boyfriend. But now it has grown into, going for me. I need to get out of this house, and away from the constant nagging, and bad motivation. I'm ready to go, I'm 18 and legally they can't do a thing to me. But my issue really comes down to this. Should I put my relationship with them at risk? By going I automatically lose their respect. But by going I get my Independence, and I can start my life. They know me best, but I don't think they know what I want and need. And what I need is for them to see that I am responsible. I don't drink, smoke, or party. I'm a book worm, I love doing work, and just because I'm going to a "big party school" doesn't mean that that is what I'm going to do. I have caring friends that are going too. I mean they are my boyfriends friends, but they've sort of adopted me into their "group". I'll be okay, but I don't know what to do.
My gut (which I normally follow) is telling me two different things. I have this big feeling to go, that it's right, but at the same time I have this dreadful feeling that I'm going to lose my parents.
So my question is Should I stay or should I go?
Thanks.
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2011 2:26 am
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2011 3:13 am
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2011 6:26 am
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2011 6:34 am
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i love sunflowers I've got a big decision to make soon. It's pretty big, so I'm looking for real advice, and some help maybe. I haven't done this before (posting personal stuff) I sorta just read stuff and might comment once or twice, but today I need a bit of help. sweatdrop I got accepted into a for year college (yay me!) but my parents don't want me to go. They've denied helping me pay for it, and have decided that it's a really bad mistake. They believe I'm going for the wrong reasons. At first I was going for my boyfriend. But now it has grown into, going for me. I need to get out of this house, and away from the constant nagging, and bad motivation. I'm ready to go, I'm 18 and legally they can't do a thing to me. But my issue really comes down to this. Should I put my relationship with them at risk? By going I automatically lose their respect. But by going I get my Independence, and I can start my life. They know me best, but I don't think they know what I want and need. And what I need is for them to see that I am responsible. I don't drink, smoke, or party. I'm a book worm, I love doing work, and just because I'm going to a "big party school" doesn't mean that that is what I'm going to do. I have caring friends that are going too. I mean they are my boyfriends friends, but they've sort of adopted me into their "group". I'll be okay, but I don't know what to do. My gut (which I normally follow) is telling me two different things. I have this big feeling to go, that it's right, but at the same time I have this dreadful feeling that I'm going to lose my parents. So my question is Should I stay or should I go? Thanks.
College is the time of your life; +_+ probably the best time...
I'd say, Rebel against, ride the fence; Stick with your own defece.
Continue on getting more & more knowledge; It'll help down the road. |
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2011 6:57 am
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victorgee89 i love sunflowers I've got a big decision to make soon. It's pretty big, so I'm looking for real advice, and some help maybe. I haven't done this before (posting personal stuff) I sorta just read stuff and might comment once or twice, but today I need a bit of help. sweatdrop I got accepted into a for year college (yay me!) but my parents don't want me to go. They've denied helping me pay for it, and have decided that it's a really bad mistake. They believe I'm going for the wrong reasons. At first I was going for my boyfriend. But now it has grown into, going for me. I need to get out of this house, and away from the constant nagging, and bad motivation. I'm ready to go, I'm 18 and legally they can't do a thing to me. But my issue really comes down to this. Should I put my relationship with them at risk? By going I automatically lose their respect. But by going I get my Independence, and I can start my life. They know me best, but I don't think they know what I want and need. And what I need is for them to see that I am responsible. I don't drink, smoke, or party. I'm a book worm, I love doing work, and just because I'm going to a "big party school" doesn't mean that that is what I'm going to do. I have caring friends that are going too. I mean they are my boyfriends friends, but they've sort of adopted me into their "group". I'll be okay, but I don't know what to do. My gut (which I normally follow) is telling me two different things. I have this big feeling to go, that it's right, but at the same time I have this dreadful feeling that I'm going to lose my parents. So my question is Should I stay or should I go? Thanks. College is the time of your life; +_+ probably the best time...
I'd say, Rebel against, ride the fence; Stick with your own defece.
Continue on getting more & more knowledge; It'll help down the road.
Yeah, but I'm terrified about losing my parents, they're important to me, and it would damage our relationship if I go. Our relationship is far from perfect, but I want to keep what's left of it ya know? |
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2011 7:03 am
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i love sunflowers victorgee89 i love sunflowers I've got a big decision to make soon. It's pretty big, so I'm looking for real advice, and some help maybe. I haven't done this before (posting personal stuff) I sorta just read stuff and might comment once or twice, but today I need a bit of help. sweatdrop I got accepted into a for year college (yay me!) but my parents don't want me to go. They've denied helping me pay for it, and have decided that it's a really bad mistake. They believe I'm going for the wrong reasons. At first I was going for my boyfriend. But now it has grown into, going for me. I need to get out of this house, and away from the constant nagging, and bad motivation. I'm ready to go, I'm 18 and legally they can't do a thing to me. But my issue really comes down to this. Should I put my relationship with them at risk? By going I automatically lose their respect. But by going I get my Independence, and I can start my life. They know me best, but I don't think they know what I want and need. And what I need is for them to see that I am responsible. I don't drink, smoke, or party. I'm a book worm, I love doing work, and just because I'm going to a "big party school" doesn't mean that that is what I'm going to do. I have caring friends that are going too. I mean they are my boyfriends friends, but they've sort of adopted me into their "group". I'll be okay, but I don't know what to do. My gut (which I normally follow) is telling me two different things. I have this big feeling to go, that it's right, but at the same time I have this dreadful feeling that I'm going to lose my parents. So my question is Should I stay or should I go? Thanks. College is the time of your life; +_+ probably the best time...
I'd say, Rebel against, ride the fence; Stick with your own defece.
Continue on getting more & more knowledge; It'll help down the road. Yeah, but I'm terrified about losing my parents, they're important to me, and it would damage our relationship if I go. Our relationship is far from perfect, but I want to keep what's left of it ya know?
You can always take classes on the internet... |
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2011 7:05 am
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victorgee89 i love sunflowers victorgee89 i love sunflowers I've got a big decision to make soon. It's pretty big, so I'm looking for real advice, and some help maybe. I haven't done this before (posting personal stuff) I sorta just read stuff and might comment once or twice, but today I need a bit of help. sweatdrop I got accepted into a for year college (yay me!) but my parents don't want me to go. They've denied helping me pay for it, and have decided that it's a really bad mistake. They believe I'm going for the wrong reasons. At first I was going for my boyfriend. But now it has grown into, going for me. I need to get out of this house, and away from the constant nagging, and bad motivation. I'm ready to go, I'm 18 and legally they can't do a thing to me. But my issue really comes down to this. Should I put my relationship with them at risk? By going I automatically lose their respect. But by going I get my Independence, and I can start my life. They know me best, but I don't think they know what I want and need. And what I need is for them to see that I am responsible. I don't drink, smoke, or party. I'm a book worm, I love doing work, and just because I'm going to a "big party school" doesn't mean that that is what I'm going to do. I have caring friends that are going too. I mean they are my boyfriends friends, but they've sort of adopted me into their "group". I'll be okay, but I don't know what to do. My gut (which I normally follow) is telling me two different things. I have this big feeling to go, that it's right, but at the same time I have this dreadful feeling that I'm going to lose my parents. So my question is Should I stay or should I go? Thanks. College is the time of your life; +_+ probably the best time...
I'd say, Rebel against, ride the fence; Stick with your own defece.
Continue on getting more & more knowledge; It'll help down the road. Yeah, but I'm terrified about losing my parents, they're important to me, and it would damage our relationship if I go. Our relationship is far from perfect, but I want to keep what's left of it ya know? You can always take classes on the internet...
I could but.... I don't want to stay where I'm at. If I go to a four year college, I really want to go to THE actual place... They don't like it cause it's known as a big party school |
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2011 7:08 am
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i love sunflowers victorgee89 i love sunflowers victorgee89 i love sunflowers I've got a big decision to make soon. It's pretty big, so I'm looking for real advice, and some help maybe. I haven't done this before (posting personal stuff) I sorta just read stuff and might comment once or twice, but today I need a bit of help. sweatdrop I got accepted into a for year college (yay me!) but my parents don't want me to go. They've denied helping me pay for it, and have decided that it's a really bad mistake. They believe I'm going for the wrong reasons. At first I was going for my boyfriend. But now it has grown into, going for me. I need to get out of this house, and away from the constant nagging, and bad motivation. I'm ready to go, I'm 18 and legally they can't do a thing to me. But my issue really comes down to this. Should I put my relationship with them at risk? By going I automatically lose their respect. But by going I get my Independence, and I can start my life. They know me best, but I don't think they know what I want and need. And what I need is for them to see that I am responsible. I don't drink, smoke, or party. I'm a book worm, I love doing work, and just because I'm going to a "big party school" doesn't mean that that is what I'm going to do. I have caring friends that are going too. I mean they are my boyfriends friends, but they've sort of adopted me into their "group". I'll be okay, but I don't know what to do. My gut (which I normally follow) is telling me two different things. I have this big feeling to go, that it's right, but at the same time I have this dreadful feeling that I'm going to lose my parents. So my question is Should I stay or should I go? Thanks. College is the time of your life; +_+ probably the best time...
I'd say, Rebel against, ride the fence; Stick with your own defece.
Continue on getting more & more knowledge; It'll help down the road. Yeah, but I'm terrified about losing my parents, they're important to me, and it would damage our relationship if I go. Our relationship is far from perfect, but I want to keep what's left of it ya know? You can always take classes on the internet... I could but.... I don't want to stay where I'm at. If I go to a four year college, I really want to go to THE actual place... They don't like it cause it's known as a big party school
Just talk it out with them about every school having the party fase;
N0 matter where you go, there's gonna be party's sometime eventually. |
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2011 7:11 am
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victorgee89 i love sunflowers victorgee89 i love sunflowers victorgee89 i love sunflowers I've got a big decision to make soon. It's pretty big, so I'm looking for real advice, and some help maybe. I haven't done this before (posting personal stuff) I sorta just read stuff and might comment once or twice, but today I need a bit of help. sweatdrop I got accepted into a for year college (yay me!) but my parents don't want me to go. They've denied helping me pay for it, and have decided that it's a really bad mistake. They believe I'm going for the wrong reasons. At first I was going for my boyfriend. But now it has grown into, going for me. I need to get out of this house, and away from the constant nagging, and bad motivation. I'm ready to go, I'm 18 and legally they can't do a thing to me. But my issue really comes down to this. Should I put my relationship with them at risk? By going I automatically lose their respect. But by going I get my Independence, and I can start my life. They know me best, but I don't think they know what I want and need. And what I need is for them to see that I am responsible. I don't drink, smoke, or party. I'm a book worm, I love doing work, and just because I'm going to a "big party school" doesn't mean that that is what I'm going to do. I have caring friends that are going too. I mean they are my boyfriends friends, but they've sort of adopted me into their "group". I'll be okay, but I don't know what to do. My gut (which I normally follow) is telling me two different things. I have this big feeling to go, that it's right, but at the same time I have this dreadful feeling that I'm going to lose my parents. So my question is Should I stay or should I go? Thanks. College is the time of your life; +_+ probably the best time...
I'd say, Rebel against, ride the fence; Stick with your own defece.
Continue on getting more & more knowledge; It'll help down the road. Yeah, but I'm terrified about losing my parents, they're important to me, and it would damage our relationship if I go. Our relationship is far from perfect, but I want to keep what's left of it ya know? You can always take classes on the internet... I could but.... I don't want to stay where I'm at. If I go to a four year college, I really want to go to THE actual place... They don't like it cause it's known as a big party school Just talk it out with them about every school having the party fase; N0 matter where you go, there's gonna be party's sometime eventually.
Yeah, I'm going to have to, School starts in two weeks, and I still have to pack up and get situated and stuff... I have a big list of things to do.
I went to boarding school in high school, and I was around partying constantly, and had a lot of opportunities to go, but I never did, so they should trust me regardless, I think. I've been around it, and I've got no interest in it. |
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2011 7:16 am
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i love sunflowers victorgee89 i love sunflowers victorgee89 i love sunflowers Yeah, but I'm terrified about losing my parents, they're important to me, and it would damage our relationship if I go. Our relationship is far from perfect, but I want to keep what's left of it ya know? You can always take classes on the internet... I could but.... I don't want to stay where I'm at. If I go to a four year college, I really want to go to THE actual place... They don't like it cause it's known as a big party school Just talk it out with them about every school having the party fase; N0 matter where you go, there's gonna be party's sometime eventually. Yeah, I'm going to have to, School starts in two weeks, and I still have to pack up and get situated and stuff... I have a big list of things to do. I went to boarding school in high school, and I was around partying constantly, and had a lot of opportunities to go, but I never did, so they should trust me regardless, I think. I've been around it, and I've got no interest in it.
Well see you got an advantage over me,
cause I'm a musician, always lookin for tips;
Playin gigs at party's people get drunk, high, & everything else & start throwing down cash tips for the band( to the girl, guys & I ) |
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2011 7:20 am
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victorgee89 i love sunflowers victorgee89 i love sunflowers victorgee89 i love sunflowers Yeah, but I'm terrified about losing my parents, they're important to me, and it would damage our relationship if I go. Our relationship is far from perfect, but I want to keep what's left of it ya know? You can always take classes on the internet... I could but.... I don't want to stay where I'm at. If I go to a four year college, I really want to go to THE actual place... They don't like it cause it's known as a big party school Just talk it out with them about every school having the party fase; N0 matter where you go, there's gonna be party's sometime eventually. Yeah, I'm going to have to, School starts in two weeks, and I still have to pack up and get situated and stuff... I have a big list of things to do. I went to boarding school in high school, and I was around partying constantly, and had a lot of opportunities to go, but I never did, so they should trust me regardless, I think. I've been around it, and I've got no interest in it. Well see you got an advantage over me, cause I'm a musician, always lookin for tips; Playin gigs at party's people get drunk, high, & everything else & start throwing down cash tips for the band( to the girl, guys & I )
That's pretty cool, the tip thing is. I would assume that everything depends on those tips, unless you work outside of that? |
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2011 7:30 am
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i love sunflowers victorgee89 i love sunflowers victorgee89 i love sunflowers I could but.... I don't want to stay where I'm at. If I go to a four year college, I really want to go to THE actual place... They don't like it cause it's known as a big party school Just talk it out with them about every school having the party fase; N0 matter where you go, there's gonna be party's sometime eventually. Yeah, I'm going to have to, School starts in two weeks, and I still have to pack up and get situated and stuff... I have a big list of things to do. I went to boarding school in high school, and I was around partying constantly, and had a lot of opportunities to go, but I never did, so they should trust me regardless, I think. I've been around it, and I've got no interest in it. Well see you got an advantage over me, cause I'm a musician, always lookin for tips; Playin gigs at party's people get drunk, high, & everything else & start throwing down cash tips for the band( to the girl, guys & I ) That's pretty cool, the tip thing is. I would assume that everything depends on those tips, unless you work outside of that?
It's my life, what makes me feel my own thrife;
Though Thriving, just makes me remember the car that was driving;
Bfore the crash, after my bands big party Bash. |
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2011 7:42 am
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victorgee89 i love sunflowers victorgee89 i love sunflowers victorgee89 i love sunflowers I could but.... I don't want to stay where I'm at. If I go to a four year college, I really want to go to THE actual place... They don't like it cause it's known as a big party school Just talk it out with them about every school having the party fase; N0 matter where you go, there's gonna be party's sometime eventually. Yeah, I'm going to have to, School starts in two weeks, and I still have to pack up and get situated and stuff... I have a big list of things to do. I went to boarding school in high school, and I was around partying constantly, and had a lot of opportunities to go, but I never did, so they should trust me regardless, I think. I've been around it, and I've got no interest in it. Well see you got an advantage over me, cause I'm a musician, always lookin for tips; Playin gigs at party's people get drunk, high, & everything else & start throwing down cash tips for the band( to the girl, guys & I ) That's pretty cool, the tip thing is. I would assume that everything depends on those tips, unless you work outside of that? It's my life, what makes me feel my own thrife; Though Thriving, just makes me remember the car that was driving; Bfore the crash, after my bands big party Bash.
Cool..
I'm sorry, that really sucks |
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2011 7:46 am
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i love sunflowers victorgee89 i love sunflowers victorgee89 i love sunflowers Yeah, I'm going to have to, School starts in two weeks, and I still have to pack up and get situated and stuff... I have a big list of things to do. I went to boarding school in high school, and I was around partying constantly, and had a lot of opportunities to go, but I never did, so they should trust me regardless, I think. I've been around it, and I've got no interest in it. Well see you got an advantage over me, cause I'm a musician, always lookin for tips; Playin gigs at party's people get drunk, high, & everything else & start throwing down cash tips for the band( to the girl, guys & I ) That's pretty cool, the tip thing is. I would assume that everything depends on those tips, unless you work outside of that? It's my life, what makes me feel my own thrife; Though Thriving, just makes me remember the car that was driving; Bfore the crash, after my bands big party Bash. Cool.. I'm sorry, that really sucks
Why whatever don't kill us makes us stronger right,
you just always gotta be prepared for the fight;
Though it did take away part of my sight.
It just gave me ideas of what I might
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