I haven't slept well in a while...

[Reveladom]

I have a bad situation going on right now... I'm having dreams... about my older brother... Not just dreams about my brother, but... sexual dreams about him... redface I'm very ashamed of myself, not only for these dreams but the terrible attraction to him they leave me with.

So... does anyone have some advice on something I can do to take away the attraction or the dreams or anything? I'm really embarrassed about it... redface

I know some peope will say, grow up or deal with it (because of my age) but it's really hard since I'm a talkative person but I don't have anyone to talk to.  

[Thirteenth_Floor]

well, maybe it's just an attraction of convenience, taking what you want with what's closest to you, what's most accessible to you. it might not be that you have an actual attraction to him, it's probably just that he just happens to fit what you want simply because he's there and those that you want aren't. maybe it's best to get distracted, do other things, maybe even try looking for other people you might be interested in.
remember, this is just my opinion on things, you don't have to take my advice smile

 

[Reveladom]

sans-coeur13

well, maybe it's just an attraction of convenience, taking what you want with what's closest to you, what's most accessible to you. it might not be that you have an actual attraction to him, it's probably just that he just happens to fit what you want simply because he's there and those that you want aren't. maybe it's best to get distracted, do other things, maybe even try looking for other people you might be interested in.
remember, this is just my opinion on things, you don't have to take my advice smile

I guess that does make a lot of sense, thank you.  

[Thirteenth_Floor]

Reveladom

sans-coeur13

well, maybe it's just an attraction of convenience, taking what you want with what's closest to you, what's most accessible to you. it might not be that you have an actual attraction to him, it's probably just that he just happens to fit what you want simply because he's there and those that you want aren't. maybe it's best to get distracted, do other things, maybe even try looking for other people you might be interested in.
remember, this is just my opinion on things, you don't have to take my advice smile

I guess that does make a lot of sense, thank you.

glad to help smile

 

[charged6claw]

This is when I count myself lucky that most guys in myfamily are ugly and I don't like them at all inthat way. Though I'm not really sure what I can add to advice that hasn'tbeen said. I guess jus' hang in there?