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Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2011 11:32 am
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interesting.
Now, i'm in a hick part of Texas and only recently came to the (gradual) realization that there's a term for a person like myself who does not fit QUITE into male or female. i mean, i figured i was a bisexual transvestite already, but PANGENDERED took a little getting used to for the idea, but i realize now that this definition fits me. i'm a biological male and i plan to stay that way. My family is a mix of Methodist and Catholic and i only recently came out to my youngest sister as being pangendered - it was a bit of a shock that she was nonchalant about it and was loving and accepting. Granted she's a warm personality and fits well into the Methodist community (i forgive her for voting for McCain xD), but she's probably the only person in my family who would actually get me all that well, even though my other sister (a hard-line Catholic) also has a good grip on my person. i just don't know how to tell the family "I'm pangendered and I am also a transvestite who can't afford nice things."
But recently i've been falling for a transgendered Gaian (FtM) who is from the Dallas area - but in a family that wants "her" (using the biological gender here for the sake of this clause) to date men or, for "her" father's view, just Asian men. As you might have gathered, i'm white.
i might eventually tell him (the TG user) my feelings for him and see what happens from there, but if things get serious, i don't know what to tell my family and friends. i mean, things won't go all too well if i say "I'm dating an FtM Asian person from Dallas and I'm also a transvestite in self-training."
What exactly can i do? Tell them from a distance? All i know is that i want things to go right so that i can still have a connection with my family.
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Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2011 11:42 am
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Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2011 11:43 am
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Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2011 12:45 pm
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Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2011 2:06 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 23, 2011 11:20 pm
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Posted: Mon Oct 24, 2011 1:14 am
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