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Karsbutt

PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 3:08 pm
So, I was new to the highschool didn't know anybody, made friends quick, etc. We'll call this one friend K. Well, long story short, me and K started dating. Two-ish days before he asked me out, he said he wasn't gonna, cause he still wasn't over this girl, and I was sad and stuff. One day in Orchestra, I was playing the game of Confessions with another girl, we'll call her A, and both admitted we had a crush on each other. Didn't matter. In Spanish, she always talked 'bout this chick she liked, C.
When she found out I was dating K (she found out quick) she got so upset. It turns out, her crush was bigger than I thought. She started dating C. I got so jealous and sad. We both knew about our jealousy, and we both told K and C 'bout it. They took to it well. C couldn't get over this one girl she likes, T, and still even sees her. A knows. So C doesn't care if me and A does anything. K said he just doesn't want us to have sex. But we both said we'd remain loyal to our partners.
Two nights ago, she came over to my house, we went walking on a trail, where we kissed. We went back to my room and cuddled. She got to 2 and 1/2 bases. (probably even more, if she didn't have to go) She says it's a one time thing.
Now I'm just sad, it hurts so bad.. I don't want to leave K because I've fallen for him, but also for A...


Thanks guys you really helped a bro out! (^_^)
Turns out my feelings have changed an now I'm just playing the waiting game.  
PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 4:20 pm
Help?  

Karsbutt


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 4:41 pm
Why are you trying to hit two birds with one stone? (three birds?)

From what it seems like to me, you need this quote.

"If you had really loved, your first choice, there wouldn't be a second choice." Think about it.



Good luck(:  
PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 5:28 pm
Flip a coin, when the coin is in the air you'll realize who you really wish for.  

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 6:41 pm
I'm not quite familar with bases, so what's 2 1/2 base?  
PostPosted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 10:25 am
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too complicated!!!!! >.<  

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 10:42 am
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too complicated!!!!! >.<

^  
PostPosted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 11:40 pm
First: I am in a somewhat similar situation myself. There is this guy I know who I love more than anyone I have ever loved before. I love him, but I am not "in love" with him. We tried dating, and it didn't work, so we decided it would be best if we just stayed friends. So, I have been looking for a new love interest, and have met a girl I really like, and she likes me. But when I think about being with her, I think of him, and then I feel guilty because of how I still feel toward him, though I now things can't work between us.
How what I typed just now can help you in anyway, I have no idea, because I have no idea how I can even make my own relationship issues work out, let alone someone else. All I can tell is to think really hard about what you really want, and do what feels right.

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 16, 2011 3:15 am
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It seems that K is in it for the long hall and doesn't get jealous easily so he sounds like a nice boyfriend. Then again, he could be using you to get over his past feelings.

A sounds like she's either in total lust or total love with you. That's good. Maybe you can ask if she would date you without sex. That should determine if she loves you or lusts you. It sounds like you and A would make a good couple. Talk about it with her.  
PostPosted: Wed Nov 16, 2011 6:39 pm
you have to choose one hun but good luck  

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 16, 2011 9:59 pm
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"If you had really loved, your first choice, there wouldn't be a second choice." Think about it.


exactly what I was thinking.  
PostPosted: Fri Nov 18, 2011 1:37 pm
Thanks guys, feelin' better C:  

Karsbutt


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 21, 2011 10:42 pm
I felt like I was doing some kind of complicated AP Calculus questions >o<
I don't have much to say about this one but hope this will come through wink
The right choice is the right one and the right one is the right choice. (In the end you will realize who you really love whee  
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