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Peak-A-Booooo

PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2011 5:16 am
How can you tell if your friend is gay or not? Any tips?  
PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2011 6:00 am
just ask  

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Peak-A-Booooo

PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2011 6:26 am
thats hard. His a very good friend of mine and I dont know if he would look at me the same way if i ask.  
PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2011 6:34 am
im afraid thats the only way you will know. you cant really guess by stereotypes since alot of those stereotypes are bs. and asking his friends may not give you the correct answer.

i know asking is hard but its the only way you will know for sure.  

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2011 8:56 am
Is there a reason you need to know if he's gay? If it's not urgent, you could just wait to see if he comes out on his own.  
PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2011 6:04 pm
If they seem to enjoy screwing people of the same sex, then that might be a small indication.  

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2011 6:32 pm
I'm not sure if there would be much of a reason to ask, unless you want to date him. If I were you, I'd just let the subject come up on its own. Don't bring it up. People get a little weirded out when you do.  
PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2011 7:12 pm
Well, if they're like your best friend, I see no reason why they wouldn't answer you if they asked. But consider your relationship before you think of asking. Other than that, wait for it to pop up. My best friend told me she was bisexual by herself. If you have good trust, they'll say it themselves.  

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