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 Posted: Wed Dec 28, 2011 5:51 am
I almost don' even want to logg onto the computer anymore.. I'm already afraid to be me in public... homophobia is a big thing here... everyone hates whats different, hell I almost got beet up because my boyfriend was holding me in his arms at lunch... as soon as he left the strait boys came over and were rude and insulting to me.. calling me names like "fagget, fudge pager, and c**t boy".... I'm sick of it... everyday is becoming more like hell... and then to make matters worse now im being attacked online... I really hate life right now.... crying
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Posted: Wed Dec 28, 2011 6:37 am
well online is easy, avoid the websites or the parts of the websites your being attacked on.
also people are stupid, chances are people are always going to be stupid. one of the best things you can do is try to grow a tougher skin so when people are being overly rude it wont bother you as much
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Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2012 4:14 pm
Homophobia is like racism. It will die down eventually, and hopefully eliminated once the next generation regains their senses.
The best thing is to not care. Don't hate your life, life is what you do with it, and most importantly- IT'S YOURS.
They can't control it, so long as you don't let them.
This is just what people say, because other people say it's wrong. It's not wrong, it's love.
And, I bet you at least one of those guys will find out he's gay someday. He'll look back and go, "Holy s**t, so THIS is what it feels like. God, I'm so sorry."
Don't care what others think. If people attack you, so what? They're just stupid and joining in with what the crowd says. Don't give up, remember there's still many, many of us out there who support you. Just like the last guy said, grow a tougher skin and ignore the stupidity of it all. If they assault you, report them. This will just bring more support in to our side.
I hope things end up alright for you.
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Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2012 4:40 pm
"Live well, it is the greatest revenge." I can't remember who said that, but that's what I tell all my friends who are bisexual and bullied for it. That and I hug them. But seeing as though everyone here is sortta too far to hug, I hope just words help.
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Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2012 6:20 pm
It's really easy for others to point and hate those who are different, but embracing the fact that you are different in a wonderful way can help you feel stronger. Instead of focusing on all the hate, focus as much as you can on those who love you and support you. As time passes by you will see that life will get better, and loving yourself for who you are will just make your life that much awesomer. You have people here to support you and all I can tell you is that your life is worth so much more than those bullies make it out to be.
(>^.^)> *hugz* <(^.^<) <-----hope that helps o^.^o
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2012 3:21 pm
Homophobia sucks, and homophobia is stupid.
Those boys are just trying to get under your skin. Even if it does bother you, and I know it must, you have to play it cool and pretend like it doesn't bother you. Once it seems like you don't care, they'll stop.
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2012 7:39 pm
Things are better in the adult world. I'm not sure how old you are, but if you're "at lunch" it sounds like high school... so that's what I'm assuming. Once you're done with studies you can go to an awesome college, in an awesome city, and then live openly and happy. And it's amazing. Just hang it there!
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2012 10:05 pm
Say "I'm sorry I don't like to fight unarmed opponents in a battle of wits." Teachers love it, Dumb asses hate it. Best comeback ever.
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Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2012 8:30 am
It gets better. It really does- and there are so many people rooting for you, they don't even know you but they want you to be happy.
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Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2012 7:28 pm
xX_FollowYourBliss_Xx Homophobia sucks, and homophobia is stupid. Those boys are just trying to get under your skin. Even if it does bother you, and I know it must, you have to play it cool and pretend like it doesn't bother you. Once it seems like you don't care, they'll stop.
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Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2012 10:46 pm
Alisa Kittykins Love I almost don' even want to logg onto the computer anymore.. I'm already afraid to be me in public... homophobia is a big thing here... everyone hates whats different, hell I almost got beet up because my boyfriend was holding me in his arms at lunch... as soon as he left the strait boys came over and were rude and insulting to me.. calling me names like "fagget, fudge pager, and c**t boy".... I'm sick of it... everyday is becoming more like hell... and then to make matters worse now im being attacked online... I really hate life right now.... crying Hunni I'm so sorry that you are going through all this and no it's not fair and please don't take it as a reflection on who and what you are. Like the others have said heteronormative people and I don't mean that every hetero person is this way but most see homosexuality and the rest of the LGBTIQ equation as a threat to their own sexuality. It does get better and don't let the small minded bigots get the better of you. If you want to talk my inbox is always open should you need someone to talk to. Much Love xx
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Posted: Wed Jan 11, 2012 6:36 pm
It gets so much better. I know it's a hard thing to hear, and the question becomes, "When? Why do I have to put up with this for so long?" But I'd like to offer the comfort that one day, you'll realize that all of those bullies amounted to nothing, their insults were meaningless, and that you became stronger than they'll ever be. It really does get better.
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Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2012 8:47 pm
Bullies won't harass you if you don't give them a response. If you just learn to blow them off (lol), they'll move on to greener pastures.
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Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2012 9:02 pm
just ignore them.. i know it is hard to, but like what everyone alse is saying, its your life.. they have no part in it.. so what if they called u names... they dont know how you really feel... you live life to the fullest no matter what.. oh they think that their stronger and biger than you.. ha they are wrong.. u are way stronger and way biger (not in a mean way) then they are.
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Posted: Thu Jan 19, 2012 12:42 pm
I totally agree with the others, but I'd say pull a brave face and smile. Block any haters online if it really brothers you but either inside your head or out to the world, scream to the sky 'I.Don't.Care.What.Anyone.Thinks'
Repeat this to yourself every day, because one day you may never have to see or hear from these people again. Any pain you feel won't last forever. Make sure to love yourself.
Even if you choose to ignore them loving yourself and having an inner strength will make words like that bounce off if you're strong enough.
You are LOVED so concentrate on the positive when you can.
All those people are far too stupid and narrow-minded to see that you're a wonderful person and be strong through whatever they throw at you.
I'm open for chatting if you want to talk about anything at all.
XX
Ahlys
Each and every one of us has a fire that burns inside of us and they can try like hell to put out that flame but as long as its in our minds we know who we are meant to be, they don't stand a chance.
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