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PostPosted: Sun Jan 29, 2012 9:27 pm


It's happened more than once... It happened twice in the past two days....I hate the pain... It's killing me... The guy I was dating cheated, then the guy I was crushing on led me on today just to break me...Why can't I stay whole for once? Why can't I be whole while loving somebody.... Why must I always get broken?
PostPosted: Fri Feb 03, 2012 8:05 pm


I'm sorry you have to suffer through this. You know where to go to if you need to talk.

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Black Veil Brides 98

PostPosted: Fri Feb 03, 2012 8:06 pm


Thanks...but no...i don't want to put a burden on anybody.
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I'm sorry you have to suffer through this. You know where to go to if you need to talk.
PostPosted: Sat Feb 04, 2012 2:10 am


Black Veil Brides 98
Thanks...but no...i don't want to put a burden on anybody.
Shadow Ra Warrior
I'm sorry you have to suffer through this. You know where to go to if you need to talk.


Obviously he doesn't mind the 'burden' since he offered to listen.

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Black Veil Brides 98

PostPosted: Sat Feb 04, 2012 9:30 am


Well he may not mind but I do...I don't like doing that...pushing my worries onto others...
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Black Veil Brides 98
Thanks...but no...i don't want to put a burden on anybody.
Shadow Ra Warrior
I'm sorry you have to suffer through this. You know where to go to if you need to talk.


Obviously he doesn't mind the 'burden' since he offered to listen.
PostPosted: Sat Feb 04, 2012 10:30 am


We're your friends. U can always talk to us

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 04, 2012 11:18 am


Black Veil Brides 98
Well he may not mind but I do...I don't like doing that...pushing my worries onto others...


You'd listen to him if he needed to talk to you, I assume. That's what friends do.

You speaking your mind will benefit you and believe it or not, but some people that listen to other's problems actually feel good for helping. So you help him and you.
PostPosted: Sat Feb 04, 2012 11:24 am


yes i would listen to him if he needed me to...
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Black Veil Brides 98
Well he may not mind but I do...I don't like doing that...pushing my worries onto others...


You'd listen to him if he needed to talk to you, I assume. That's what friends do.

You speaking your mind will benefit you and believe it or not, but some people that listen to other's problems actually feel good for helping. So you help him and you.

Black Veil Brides 98


Black Veil Brides 98

PostPosted: Sat Feb 04, 2012 11:26 am


DJ Arctic Wolf
We're your friends. U can always talk to us


I know but I dont like pushing my problems off on others...i dont like being a burden...i dont like burdening others with my problems...
PostPosted: Sat Feb 04, 2012 11:43 am


Black Veil Brides 98
yes i would listen to him if he needed me to...


So you'd listen to him and he has offered to listen to you. So talk to him. Just listening to someone isn't a burden when they're willing to listen. You're making this into a bigger deal than it is. Why are you doing that?

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Black Veil Brides 98

PostPosted: Sat Feb 04, 2012 1:54 pm


Im not making it into a bigger deal.
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Black Veil Brides 98
yes i would listen to him if he needed me to...


So you'd listen to him and he has offered to listen to you. So talk to him. Just listening to someone isn't a burden when they're willing to listen. You're making this into a bigger deal than it is. Why are you doing that?
PostPosted: Sat Feb 04, 2012 1:58 pm


Black Veil Brides 98
Im not making it into a bigger deal.


Then are you still "I'm a burden" to your friends?

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Black Veil Brides 98

PostPosted: Sat Feb 04, 2012 2:16 pm


yes because it's the truth
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Black Veil Brides 98
Im not making it into a bigger deal.


Then are you still "I'm a burden" to your friends?
PostPosted: Sat Feb 04, 2012 3:54 pm


Black Veil Brides 98
yes because it's the truth


Someone offered to listen. If you aren't going to take advantage of that, then why even mention when you have a problem? It almost seems like you're hoping to have people ask repeatedly to share.

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 05, 2012 11:13 am


If you don't want to tell me, that's fine. Just take your time going through the situation. Like I said before, you know where to go If you want to talk to anyone. Also, if you want to follow this advice: take some "me" time; take a break from love. Enjoy your "me" time by doing things that make you happy. Screw going out/hanging with someone, treat yourself to something good. Also, True love seeks you out; never desperately seek love or as you seen, desperately seek love hurts you mentality, emotionality and physicality. And please, take your time getting to know someone before taking things to the next level. You are just as important as anyone else so treat and respect yourself as such.
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