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 Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 10:27 am
Okay. So, recently, it's become a lot harder and spending time with my boyfriend has been rather rare. And now he's grounded. And it sucks.
And sometimes I'll try and get hold of him all day (texting and IMs) and he doesn't reply, then he updates his Facebook via his mobile. And I get all paranoid and think he's ignoring me and, ugh! Then I want to hit myself because I jump to conclusions... I know he'd never mean to ignore me.
Anywhoo, what do I do? Shall I wait this one out and stay optimistic?
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Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 10:34 am
Honestly, I've never had to deal with someone being grounded, but its all about expressing your feelings to your partner. A relationship is a two way street. Find out why he hasn't been texting you and then explain yourself. If he over reacts to you, then maybe it time to move on. Don't think I'm telling you to break up with him! No, no, no! Just express yourself, its unhealthy to keep emotions and panic built up inside of you. Paranoia is bad stuff.
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Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 10:37 am
Onato Honestly, I've never had to deal with someone being grounded, but its all about expressing your feelings to your partner. A relationship is a two way street. Find out why he hasn't been texting you and then explain yourself. If he over reacts to you, then maybe it time to move on. Don't think I'm telling you to break up with him! No, no, no! Just express yourself, its unhealthy to keep emotions and panic built up inside of you. Paranoia is bad stuff. Alright, thanks! smile
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Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 10:40 am
Onato Honestly, I've never had to deal with someone being grounded, but its all about expressing your feelings to your partner. A relationship is a two way street. Find out why he hasn't been texting you and then explain yourself. If he over reacts to you, then maybe it time to move on. Don't think I'm telling you to break up with him! No, no, no! Just express yourself, its unhealthy to keep emotions and panic built up inside of you. Paranoia is bad stuff. I texted him this morning and asked him why he hadn't replied, his text was: Sorry I'm at my dad's. :/
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Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 10:41 am
Let him know how you're feeling. Maybe he doesn't realize he's ignoring you or has a reason to not be able to reply. Finding out could help.
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Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 10:46 am
Azareas Aquarinus Onato Honestly, I've never had to deal with someone being grounded, but its all about expressing your feelings to your partner. A relationship is a two way street. Find out why he hasn't been texting you and then explain yourself. If he over reacts to you, then maybe it time to move on. Don't think I'm telling you to break up with him! No, no, no! Just express yourself, its unhealthy to keep emotions and panic built up inside of you. Paranoia is bad stuff. I texted him this morning and asked him why he hadn't replied, his text was: Sorry I'm at my dad's. :/ Awe, well at least he apologized. Parental opposition is normally a big factor on anti-gays in the family. No parent, in retrospec, wants to see their child turn homosexual. Thats if hes parents do not know already. And even if they did know, they may not like that he is, and will try to change him. Of course I'm just ranting and I know nothing about how and what his parents know on your boyfriend, I'm just talking out of personal experience. My parents disapprove of homosexuality and tried to guilt trip me back to being straight. e.e
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Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 10:49 am
Onato Azareas Aquarinus Onato Honestly, I've never had to deal with someone being grounded, but its all about expressing your feelings to your partner. A relationship is a two way street. Find out why he hasn't been texting you and then explain yourself. If he over reacts to you, then maybe it time to move on. Don't think I'm telling you to break up with him! No, no, no! Just express yourself, its unhealthy to keep emotions and panic built up inside of you. Paranoia is bad stuff. I texted him this morning and asked him why he hadn't replied, his text was: Sorry I'm at my dad's. :/ Awe, well at least he apologized. Parental opposition is normally a big factor on anti-gays in the family. No parent, in retrospec, wants to see their child turn homosexual. Thats if hes parents do not know already. And even if they did know, they may not like that he is, and will try to change him. Of course I'm just ranting and I know nothing about how and what his parents know on your boyfriend, I'm just talking out of personal experience. My parents disapprove of homosexuality and tried to guilt trip me back to being straight. e.e None of his parents know. The only thing I know about his dad that he's nosy. So I guess texting and cute-talking me and his dad seeing the messages, would risk a lot. So I'm sure he's doing it for the greater good of all.
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Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 10:52 am
Azareas Aquarinus Onato Azareas Aquarinus Onato Honestly, I've never had to deal with someone being grounded, but its all about expressing your feelings to your partner. A relationship is a two way street. Find out why he hasn't been texting you and then explain yourself. If he over reacts to you, then maybe it time to move on. Don't think I'm telling you to break up with him! No, no, no! Just express yourself, its unhealthy to keep emotions and panic built up inside of you. Paranoia is bad stuff. I texted him this morning and asked him why he hadn't replied, his text was: Sorry I'm at my dad's. :/ Awe, well at least he apologized. Parental opposition is normally a big factor on anti-gays in the family. No parent, in retrospec, wants to see their child turn homosexual. Thats if hes parents do not know already. And even if they did know, they may not like that he is, and will try to change him. Of course I'm just ranting and I know nothing about how and what his parents know on your boyfriend, I'm just talking out of personal experience. My parents disapprove of homosexuality and tried to guilt trip me back to being straight. e.e None of his parents know. The only thing I know about his dad that he's nosy. So I guess texting and cute-talking me and his dad seeing the messages, would risk a lot. So I'm sure he's doing it for the greater good of all. Of course, my mother was the same exact way. I'm 19 going on 20 and my parents still do this. But, I'm about to leave in the fall to go to Mississippi State college which is all the way on the other side (northern most part) of my state, so I'll finally be away from them. Planning on coming back out to them before I leave. Tired of trying to 'proud of me'. Its tough being part of a family like this.
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Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 10:53 am
Onato Azareas Aquarinus Onato Azareas Aquarinus Onato Honestly, I've never had to deal with someone being grounded, but its all about expressing your feelings to your partner. A relationship is a two way street. Find out why he hasn't been texting you and then explain yourself. If he over reacts to you, then maybe it time to move on. Don't think I'm telling you to break up with him! No, no, no! Just express yourself, its unhealthy to keep emotions and panic built up inside of you. Paranoia is bad stuff. I texted him this morning and asked him why he hadn't replied, his text was: Sorry I'm at my dad's. :/ Awe, well at least he apologized. Parental opposition is normally a big factor on anti-gays in the family. No parent, in retrospec, wants to see their child turn homosexual. Thats if hes parents do not know already. And even if they did know, they may not like that he is, and will try to change him. Of course I'm just ranting and I know nothing about how and what his parents know on your boyfriend, I'm just talking out of personal experience. My parents disapprove of homosexuality and tried to guilt trip me back to being straight. e.e None of his parents know. The only thing I know about his dad that he's nosy. So I guess texting and cute-talking me and his dad seeing the messages, would risk a lot. So I'm sure he's doing it for the greater good of all. Of course, my mother was the same exact way. I'm 19 going on 20 and my parents still do this. But, I'm about to leave in the fall to go to Mississippi State college which is all the way on the other side (northern most part) of my state, so I'll finally be away from them. Planning on coming back out to them before I leave. Tired of trying to 'proud of me'. Its tough being part of a family like this. His parents are divorced, so he lives with his mother and tends to see his dad on weekends. I know his mother has gay friends, so I suppose she'd be accepting. But then again, those friends aren't her son. He's bisexual, by the way.
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Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 10:55 am
Azareas Aquarinus Onato Azareas Aquarinus Onato Azareas Aquarinus Onato Honestly, I've never had to deal with someone being grounded, but its all about expressing your feelings to your partner. A relationship is a two way street. Find out why he hasn't been texting you and then explain yourself. If he over reacts to you, then maybe it time to move on. Don't think I'm telling you to break up with him! No, no, no! Just express yourself, its unhealthy to keep emotions and panic built up inside of you. Paranoia is bad stuff. I texted him this morning and asked him why he hadn't replied, his text was: Sorry I'm at my dad's. :/ Awe, well at least he apologized. Parental opposition is normally a big factor on anti-gays in the family. No parent, in retrospec, wants to see their child turn homosexual. Thats if hes parents do not know already. And even if they did know, they may not like that he is, and will try to change him. Of course I'm just ranting and I know nothing about how and what his parents know on your boyfriend, I'm just talking out of personal experience. My parents disapprove of homosexuality and tried to guilt trip me back to being straight. e.e None of his parents know. The only thing I know about his dad that he's nosy. So I guess texting and cute-talking me and his dad seeing the messages, would risk a lot. So I'm sure he's doing it for the greater good of all. Of course, my mother was the same exact way. I'm 19 going on 20 and my parents still do this. But, I'm about to leave in the fall to go to Mississippi State college which is all the way on the other side (northern most part) of my state, so I'll finally be away from them. Planning on coming back out to them before I leave. Tired of trying to 'proud of me'. Its tough being part of a family like this. His parents are divorced, so he lives with his mother and tends to see his dad on weekends. I know his mother has gay friends, so I suppose she'd be accepting. But then again, those friends aren't her son. He's bisexual, by the way. My family has gay friends as well, but its a whole lot different when its your child. Honestly though, it not their decision to make.
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Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 10:57 am
Onato Azareas Aquarinus Onato Azareas Aquarinus Onato Awe, well at least he apologized. Parental opposition is normally a big factor on anti-gays in the family. No parent, in retrospec, wants to see their child turn homosexual. Thats if hes parents do not know already. And even if they did know, they may not like that he is, and will try to change him. Of course I'm just ranting and I know nothing about how and what his parents know on your boyfriend, I'm just talking out of personal experience. My parents disapprove of homosexuality and tried to guilt trip me back to being straight. e.e None of his parents know. The only thing I know about his dad that he's nosy. So I guess texting and cute-talking me and his dad seeing the messages, would risk a lot. So I'm sure he's doing it for the greater good of all. Of course, my mother was the same exact way. I'm 19 going on 20 and my parents still do this. But, I'm about to leave in the fall to go to Mississippi State college which is all the way on the other side (northern most part) of my state, so I'll finally be away from them. Planning on coming back out to them before I leave. Tired of trying to 'proud of me'. Its tough being part of a family like this. His parents are divorced, so he lives with his mother and tends to see his dad on weekends. I know his mother has gay friends, so I suppose she'd be accepting. But then again, those friends aren't her son. He's bisexual, by the way. My family has gay friends as well, but its a whole lot different when its your child. Honestly though, it not their decision to make. I know. I need to stop being paranoid. And look at the solid proof. Proof that he cares about me and loves me. Sometimes I blame myself because I'm quite complicated, emotionally. >.< And stop standing around at school, expecting him to notice me, and go to him. XD
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Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 11:00 am
Azareas Aquarinus Onato Azareas Aquarinus Onato Azareas Aquarinus Onato Awe, well at least he apologized. Parental opposition is normally a big factor on anti-gays in the family. No parent, in retrospec, wants to see their child turn homosexual. Thats if hes parents do not know already. And even if they did know, they may not like that he is, and will try to change him. Of course I'm just ranting and I know nothing about how and what his parents know on your boyfriend, I'm just talking out of personal experience. My parents disapprove of homosexuality and tried to guilt trip me back to being straight. e.e None of his parents know. The only thing I know about his dad that he's nosy. So I guess texting and cute-talking me and his dad seeing the messages, would risk a lot. So I'm sure he's doing it for the greater good of all. Of course, my mother was the same exact way. I'm 19 going on 20 and my parents still do this. But, I'm about to leave in the fall to go to Mississippi State college which is all the way on the other side (northern most part) of my state, so I'll finally be away from them. Planning on coming back out to them before I leave. Tired of trying to 'proud of me'. Its tough being part of a family like this. His parents are divorced, so he lives with his mother and tends to see his dad on weekends. I know his mother has gay friends, so I suppose she'd be accepting. But then again, those friends aren't her son. He's bisexual, by the way. My family has gay friends as well, but its a whole lot different when its your child. Honestly though, it not their decision to make. I know. I need to stop being paranoid. And look at the solid proof. Proof that he cares about me and loves me. Sometimes I blame myself because I'm quite complicated, emotionally. >.< And stop standing around at school, expecting him to notice me, and go to him. XD Thats the whole 'A relationship is a two way road' kinda thing. You gotta put a little effort in their. Respect and acknowledge his care for you, and if you wanna see him, don't wait for him, go to him yourself. Surprise him maybe.
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Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 11:01 am
Onato Azareas Aquarinus Onato Azareas Aquarinus Onato Of course, my mother was the same exact way. I'm 19 going on 20 and my parents still do this. But, I'm about to leave in the fall to go to Mississippi State college which is all the way on the other side (northern most part) of my state, so I'll finally be away from them. Planning on coming back out to them before I leave. Tired of trying to 'proud of me'. Its tough being part of a family like this. His parents are divorced, so he lives with his mother and tends to see his dad on weekends. I know his mother has gay friends, so I suppose she'd be accepting. But then again, those friends aren't her son. He's bisexual, by the way. My family has gay friends as well, but its a whole lot different when its your child. Honestly though, it not their decision to make. I know. I need to stop being paranoid. And look at the solid proof. Proof that he cares about me and loves me. Sometimes I blame myself because I'm quite complicated, emotionally. >.< And stop standing around at school, expecting him to notice me, and go to him. XD Thats the whole 'A relationship is a two way road' kinda thing. You gotta put a little effort in their. Respect and acknowledge his care for you, and if you wanna see him, don't wait for him, go to him yourself. Surprise him maybe. No idea where he lives. He's in the same area, it's just BIG! So yeah xD And his mother's cautious about who he has in the house.
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Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 11:06 am
Azareas Aquarinus Onato Azareas Aquarinus Onato Azareas Aquarinus Onato Of course, my mother was the same exact way. I'm 19 going on 20 and my parents still do this. But, I'm about to leave in the fall to go to Mississippi State college which is all the way on the other side (northern most part) of my state, so I'll finally be away from them. Planning on coming back out to them before I leave. Tired of trying to 'proud of me'. Its tough being part of a family like this. His parents are divorced, so he lives with his mother and tends to see his dad on weekends. I know his mother has gay friends, so I suppose she'd be accepting. But then again, those friends aren't her son. He's bisexual, by the way. My family has gay friends as well, but its a whole lot different when its your child. Honestly though, it not their decision to make. I know. I need to stop being paranoid. And look at the solid proof. Proof that he cares about me and loves me. Sometimes I blame myself because I'm quite complicated, emotionally. >.< And stop standing around at school, expecting him to notice me, and go to him. XD Thats the whole 'A relationship is a two way road' kinda thing. You gotta put a little effort in their. Respect and acknowledge his care for you, and if you wanna see him, don't wait for him, go to him yourself. Surprise him maybe. No idea where he lives. He's in the same area, it's just BIG! So yeah xD And his mother's cautious about who he has in the house. Understandable. Well, as you get older, you'll find that you gonna be able to leave the house more. I normally go out with my friends at any time I want. So, the older you get, the more you'll probably be with him. So don't worry about it now.
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Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2012 11:09 am
Onato Azareas Aquarinus Onato Azareas Aquarinus Onato My family has gay friends as well, but its a whole lot different when its your child. Honestly though, it not their decision to make. I know. I need to stop being paranoid. And look at the solid proof. Proof that he cares about me and loves me. Sometimes I blame myself because I'm quite complicated, emotionally. >.< And stop standing around at school, expecting him to notice me, and go to him. XD Thats the whole 'A relationship is a two way road' kinda thing. You gotta put a little effort in their. Respect and acknowledge his care for you, and if you wanna see him, don't wait for him, go to him yourself. Surprise him maybe. No idea where he lives. He's in the same area, it's just BIG! So yeah xD And his mother's cautious about who he has in the house. Understandable. Well, as you get older, you'll find that you gonna be able to leave the house more. I normally go out with my friends at any time I want. So, the older you get, the more you'll probably be with him. So don't worry about it now. Yeah! But he and I are opposite when it comes to going out. I'm fifteen, and I've been allowed to stay out 'till 11pm, sleepovers, go out on my own, etc. I guess it's because I'm quite independent. My boyfriend (Robert) his mother doesn't let him go out a lot on his own and she usually wants him to help out around the house.
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