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Posted: Sat Feb 25, 2012 10:37 pm
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Crew: If this is in the wrong place, I apologize and please redirect it properly
Hey y'all, so I don't usually like randomly asking people on the internet for help, but this is the GGSA and I need some support due to lack of knowing anyone because I JUST moved to a new city. It's about my boyfriend (classified heterosexual)... I've been in love with him for 6 years, and we've been best friends the whole time. He's known how I felt through our whole friendship: through me coming out as a T girl and becoming orphaned, moving, all of it. He said he never felt the same. When I told him I was moving away (originally to get away from him because being in love with him hurt too much), he wanted to come with me. So he did. And when I came out as transgender, he wanted to be in a relationship with me, so we are. It's my dream come true - my perfect man finally showing his feelings for me. But it's not what I expected. Am I wrong to believe that if you love someone, their body shouldn't matter and love is boundless? I understand sexual instinct, but I always thought love could conquer it. Anyway, we have been dating since we moved, about 4 months now, and we are NEVER intimate. Twice have we even made out since we've been here (and we used to occasionally hook up when I was male). He's "heterosexual" and says he's not sexually attracted to me. But I am a very sexual person who needs intimacy to be content. But he can't deliver and leaves me hanging every day. I am highly offended that he even has the balls to say he doesn't find me attractive and thinks my body is repulsive. He won't even let -me- touch -him-. I love him too much to leave him now, especially since we're both in a brand new city, but this is killing me. How do I go about this? Anyone have advice? Have you experienced something similar?
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Posted: Sat Feb 25, 2012 11:29 pm
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Posted: Sat Feb 25, 2012 11:43 pm
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Posted: Sun Feb 26, 2012 12:01 am
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