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Posted: Wed Apr 25, 2012 10:13 am
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Posted: Wed Apr 25, 2012 10:39 am
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If you don't like her, then that's alright. The worst thing to do would be to pity her, and get into a relationship with her. As then she would think you are serious, and it would lead to many many problems, and in the end it would hurt her more than telling her you don't feel the same way. It's alright you told her you would try, but sit down and talk with her. Especially since she's still in the closet. Talk with her, that you don't have the same feelings for her, but you would stay friends/stay in touch on Facebook or e-mail. She may continue to try and get together with you, and if it gets to a certain point- I mean to stalking or harassment, then get help/talk to an adult, guardian, etc. Truly all you can do is talk it out with her. I hope everything turns out the way you want it to : ) Good luck~
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The Bodacious Soul Reaper
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Posted: Wed Apr 25, 2012 10:42 am
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Posted: Wed Apr 25, 2012 11:46 am
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The Bodacious Soul Reaper If you don't like her, then that's alright. The worst thing to do would be to pity her, and get into a relationship with her. As then she would think you are serious, and it would lead to many many problems, and in the end it would hurt her more than telling her you don't feel the same way. It's alright you told her you would try, but sit down and talk with her. Especially since she's still in the closet. Talk with her, that you don't have the same feelings for her, but you would stay friends/stay in touch on Facebook or e-mail. She may continue to try and get together with you, and if it gets to a certain point- I mean to stalking or harassment, then get help/talk to an adult, guardian, etc. Truly all you can do is talk it out with her. I hope everything turns out the way you want it to : ) Good luck~
I tried to explain to her that it wouldn't be fair to her if I don't feel the same. Then she tried to say no one else would date. Like I was a 'last choice' I can't date someone who feels that way! I'll try to talk... But I'm not sure how that would turn out. She also tried to say she was 'in love' with me. So that complicates the situation.
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The Bodacious Soul Reaper
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Posted: Wed Apr 25, 2012 11:49 am
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Posted: Wed Apr 25, 2012 12:49 pm
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Posted: Wed Apr 25, 2012 3:45 pm
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The Bodacious Soul Reaper mehwuvzgurlz The Bodacious Soul Reaper
It is a true complicated situation, but believe me, if you date her when you don't feel the same way for her then it will only hurt her and you. It would give her the illusion that you love her, then she may even ask you to marry her, that might be a little over the top, but you never know. The best thing to do is talk it out with her, and if she refuses then tell her to give you time. Tell her to try and find someone else, maybe meet new people. I hope everything turns out alright ^_^
Thanks! I'll try! You're welcome~
It's not working T.T
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Posted: Wed Apr 25, 2012 3:47 pm
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Posted: Wed Apr 25, 2012 6:07 pm
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mehwuvzgurlz The Bodacious Soul Reaper mehwuvzgurlz The Bodacious Soul Reaper
It is a true complicated situation, but believe me, if you date her when you don't feel the same way for her then it will only hurt her and you. It would give her the illusion that you love her, then she may even ask you to marry her, that might be a little over the top, but you never know. The best thing to do is talk it out with her, and if she refuses then tell her to give you time. Tell her to try and find someone else, maybe meet new people. I hope everything turns out alright ^_^
Thanks! I'll try! You're welcome~
It's not working T.T
I'm sorry! How is she reacting? If I know more details I'd be able to say more than "just keep talking with her". : )
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The Bodacious Soul Reaper
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Posted: Wed Apr 25, 2012 6:14 pm
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The Bodacious Soul Reaper mehwuvzgurlz The Bodacious Soul Reaper mehwuvzgurlz The Bodacious Soul Reaper
It is a true complicated situation, but believe me, if you date her when you don't feel the same way for her then it will only hurt her and you. It would give her the illusion that you love her, then she may even ask you to marry her, that might be a little over the top, but you never know. The best thing to do is talk it out with her, and if she refuses then tell her to give you time. Tell her to try and find someone else, maybe meet new people. I hope everything turns out alright ^_^
Thanks! I'll try! You're welcome~
It's not working T.T I'm sorry! How is she reacting? If I know more details I'd be able to say more than "just keep talking with her". : ) She's still trying to I WILL like her. But I don't and won't. I kept trying to explain that it didn't work that way. Also- I think she's really straight NOT bi. She only thinks she is. (I got this because she's grossed out by things like boobs and such. I txted her- still no reply.
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Posted: Wed Apr 25, 2012 6:49 pm
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Posted: Wed Apr 25, 2012 7:16 pm
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Posted: Wed Apr 25, 2012 7:16 pm
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The Bodacious Soul Reaper
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Posted: Wed Apr 25, 2012 9:35 pm
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mehwuvzgurlz The Bodacious Soul Reaper mehwuvzgurlz The Bodacious Soul Reaper It's not working T.T I'm sorry! How is she reacting? If I know more details I'd be able to say more than "just keep talking with her". : ) She's still trying to I WILL like her. But I don't and won't. I kept trying to explain that it didn't work that way. Also- I think she's really straight NOT bi. She only thinks she is. (I got this because she's grossed out by things like boobs and such. I txted her- still no reply.
That's a tough situation since she won't listen.. I'm sorry for it. There's really nothing more than try and talk it out with her some more, maybe face to face. Go get some coffee, ice cream, or just meet up somewhere. I hope she will understand~
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