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Posted: Thu Apr 26, 2012 7:24 pm
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Posted: Thu Apr 26, 2012 7:41 pm
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Posted: Thu Apr 26, 2012 7:54 pm
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Posted: Thu Apr 26, 2012 7:55 pm
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Posted: Thu Apr 26, 2012 7:56 pm
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Posted: Thu Apr 26, 2012 11:04 pm
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I do not like using the S word, so I will say "dirty person". But to ask if one's a "dirty person" is a matter of opinion. People are sexually active these days, at least it seems, and it depends on the extent. In my opinion, if someone will just sleep with someone they just met, that's what I personally view as a "dirty person". As well as someone who is married, and sleeps around with other married people. Which, truly isn't really a "dirty person" it's just immoral. But that's what my view is on it. But I don't truly think you are one, you seem to be a young adult who is active.
Edit: Simply liking to sleep around, and having it on your mind all the time does not mean you are a "dirty person". Men are the most sexually active between the ages of 21-30, as woman are most active when they are 30-38.
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The Bodacious Soul Reaper
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Posted: Fri Apr 27, 2012 8:28 am
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Posted: Fri Apr 27, 2012 9:36 am
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Posted: Fri Apr 27, 2012 5:42 pm
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You're considered a slut when someone else decides that your life choices don't measure up to their standards. biggrin
There doesn't seem to be any consensus as to what exactly makes someone a slut. The number of partners one's had obviously doesn't matter. I mean, I've heard people use "slut" to describe an individual who'd only had sex with one other person. Hell, I knew a "slut" who was a virgin. Her complete lack of sexual experience didn't matter; just dressing "provocatively" is apparently enough to earn the label.
Then there's the fact that there are apparently so very many more female sluts and queer male sluts than there are male sluts. razz It's not a term that gets attached to straight men all that often.
The only thing that seems to have any consistency is that the people using the slur are the ones who are unhappy in some way.
Honestly, I wouldn't worry about being a "slut".
I don't think there's anything wrong with being sexually active or having multiple partners (provided that everyone's consenting and whatnot).
That said, we do need to be aware of the possible consequences. The physical risks are well-known, and (hopefully) we all take precautions when it comes to safe-guarding our health. Just don't forget the mental and emotional health aspect. I don't think anyone should necessarily care what their acquaintances and friends think of their sex life, but unless you're incredibly discreet, it's a good idea to be prepared to deal with gossip. Even if you've got a thick skin, finding out that you've got a negative reputation can really hurt. I don't condone the nasty name-calling, but it's an unfortunate fact of life that you need to keep in mind. Even if no one else knows, worrying about what others would think can really drag you down.
To sum it all up, no, I do not think you're a slut. But if your sexual encounters are starting to make you unhappy or affect your self-image, then you might want to take a break from them (and sites like Grindr) for a while. smile
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Posted: Fri Apr 27, 2012 8:05 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2012 12:18 am
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Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2012 12:21 pm
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