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 Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 7:30 pm
My sister is having her second son in August,
and we've been doing a lot of planning and preparation for the
baby shower, and etc.
I think all this baby stuff might be the reason,
but for the past few weeks, I've been wanting to have children,
like crazy..
I'm young, so I know I'm probably not ready yet,
and plus, being in a relationship with the same sex,
it would be hell difficult to have a child.
I've just felt these really maternal instincts lately,
that make me want to have a child of my own, it's nuts.
Yeah... >,<
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 7:44 pm
Good I guess, maybe someday you will have child (could always try to adopt of find a surrogate). I seem to have no maternal instinct. Everyone around me is getting married and having kids, but I can't really picture that for me.
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2012 7:45 pm
First i wanna start with. Nice picture you two area a cute couple....ok now that thats out the way, your not nuts. Actuallyhaving kids in same sex relationships is very normal just you usually would adopt of find a surrogate mother to carry the baby
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Posted: Mon Jul 09, 2012 9:37 pm
Children are the biggest financial investment someone can make. As far as same-sex couples are concerned, it's a very hefty investment, unfortunately. So all in all, just make sure you're ready and when you're ready, you'll know c:
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Posted: Tue Jul 10, 2012 5:05 am
i feel your pain. all my friends are having babies accidently and im sitting here trying to have a baby and nothing. i hate this baby envy thing i have going right now xd i seem to have surrounded myself with very fertile people and i think they are sucking out all of my fertile-ness lol
would you want to adopt or have your own?
also age has nothing to do with being ready to have a baby. ive met people in highschool who made amazing parents right away and now that im older i know people who are horrible parents and only think of themselves. also alot of people are always going to tell you that you are too young to have a baby no matter what age you are.
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Posted: Tue Jul 10, 2012 1:48 pm
I've never, ever wanted children. I don't have the patience. I think I would be an absolutely terrible parent.
That said, when I ended up becoming the guardian of a teenager, I found I have a lot more patience than I ever thought I did. razz Still. No babies for me. Ever.
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Posted: Mon Oct 29, 2012 7:37 pm
wiccan_sk8er My sister is having her second son in August, and we've been doing a lot of planning and preparation for the baby shower, and etc. I think all this baby stuff might be the reason, but for the past few weeks, I've been wanting to have children, like crazy.. I'm young, so I know I'm probably not ready yet, and plus, being in a relationship with the same sex, it would be hell difficult to have a child. I've just felt these really maternal instincts lately, that make me want to have a child of my own, it's nuts. Yeah... >,< I know exactally how you feel! A couple weeks ago, my friend had her baby, and when she came and visted, I was washed with maternal instincts, I eanted a baby of my own smile bou since I don't have a vajay jay its pretty hard to make that happen. I take child Development, and I'm surrounded by infants and todlers, and I get so envious. I mean I do get to work with them, (if that is the right thing to say) and I get so protective over them, I feel like that their my child, even if they arnt. So, when I finish HS, and college, I'm adopting or doing a surrogate. No questions asked. So, my advice, see what happens, and when ur sis. Has the baby, see if u still jhave ur maternal instincts, u just might be getting them from ur sister, you know? Sorry if that sounds weird.
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Posted: Tue Oct 30, 2012 1:34 am
You know both my cousins had children. One was 16 and the other was 19 at the time.
I visit them all the time and I especially love playing with the babies, but that said neither was really ready I don't feel. My aunt does a lot to help out my younger cousin, but the older has become independent with her boyfriend.
Basically, what I mean to say.... It's easy to heart them, but it's very hard to really raise them.
Hopefully when/if the people on here decide to go for children I hope it's after excessively careful consideration!
Ahaha... I'd make a terrible parent though myself.
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Posted: Tue Oct 30, 2012 10:45 am
I've been feeling the same way!!! But I'm only 16 so it's kinda weird I'm thinking about it now. I haven't really even told my boyfriend. I really only start to feel it when I see some of the families on my block. Like for instance, my neighbor just had a baby, and anytime I see them, I start thinking about baby names, what their room would look like, etc. I guess I just can't wait to grow up.
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Posted: Wed Oct 31, 2012 12:50 am
Honestly, every time I'm on the phone with my best friend and I hear him trying to get one of the girls to stop crying (he has two daughters, a toddler and an infant) I just think to myself how happy I am not to have kids.
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2012 9:07 am
My boyfriend and I are going to have a surrogate carry our child when we're ready. I believe that having a child can bring us closer together than we already are.
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2012 10:30 am
My mom is having her 4th baby so soon. she has a 19th month old and an 18yr old and me at 21. The babys make me wanna have my own so much! I dream of it every day! I know its to soon but omg how awesome it would be!!!
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