Okay. I am going to sound really weird and awkward about this. Does anyone else get girl crushes at all? I'm not homosexual I'm only 13 after all cat_sweatdrop I have girl crushes on a lot of my friends and I keep thinking I'm a total weirdo for it cat_redface
Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 8:50 am
umm, you can be gay at any age, a lot of people know from a very young age. Theres nothing weird in that.
Theres nothing wrong with crushing on girls, Your not a weirdo. Do you never have crushes on guys? You could be bi or just a little curious.
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Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 8:53 am
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umm, you can be gay at any age, a lot of people know from a very young age. Theres nothing weird in that.
Theres nothing wrong with crushing on girls, Your not a weirdo. Do you never have crushes on guys? You could be bi or just a little curious.
i don't really know if I'm gay or not to be honest cat_redface
I never really get crushes on guys since i go to an all girls school i don't see guys that much and to be honest i'm not that attracted to them for the most part. i dunno it's all so confusing...
Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 8:59 am
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i don't really know if I'm gay or not to be honest cat_redface
I never really get crushes on guys since i go to an all girls school i don't see guys that much and to be honest i'm not that attracted to them for the most part. i dunno it's all so confusing...
No body can tell you if your gay or not, unfortunately. Its something that you have to figure out for yourself. And its okay to be confused about it!! You don't need to rush your self and make a big life decision. If you have a crush on a girl Thats fine, don't feel bad about it or try and deny it, You'll just stress yourself out. Just like who you like 3nodding And if you need people to talk to about it we're all here 4laugh
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Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 9:04 am
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No body can tell you if your gay or not, unfortunately. Its something that you have to figure out for yourself. And its okay to be confused about it!! You don't need to rush your self and make a big life decision. If you have a crush on a girl Thats fine, don't feel bad about it or try and deny it, You'll just stress yourself out. Just like who you like 3nodding And if you need people to talk to about it we're all here 4laugh
thank you for the advice cat_4laugh
Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 10:19 am
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Okay. I am going to sound really weird and awkward about this. Does anyone else get girl crushes at all? I'm not homosexual I'm only 13 after all cat_sweatdrop I have girl crushes on a lot of my friends and I keep thinking I'm a total weirdo for it cat_redface
That was the age I started really noticing girl crushes- beforehand, I thought I viewed some girls at role models, when, in hindsight, I did like them.
It's common for you to feel this way at your age. Some people realize after a while that they are actually straight, and the feelings were just bicuriosity. However, it may be like me, when it isn't a "phase." It will just take time and possible experimentation to find out your sexual orientation; I thought I was bi, but I'm actually panromantic.
lol, doll, when I was 12 and 13 I was in love with my best friend who was a girl. Still kind of am, even though we don't talk anymore.
But at the same time there are plenty of guys I've liked and yes I do get 'girl crushes' from time to time.
totally normal. emotion_bigheart
Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 10:44 am
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That was the age I started really noticing girl crushes- beforehand, I thought I viewed some girls at role models, when, in hindsight, I did like them.
It's common for you to feel this way at your age. Some people realize after a while that they are actually straight, and the feelings were just bicuriosity. However, it may be like me, when it isn't a "phase." It will just take time and possible experimentation to find out your sexual orientation; I thought I was bi, but I'm actually panromantic.
I'm glad this is normal cause if i told any of my real friends about this they would freak out or something cat_sweatdrop
I'm glad this is normal cause if i told any of my real friends about this they would freak out or something cat_sweatdrop
i'll just have to see how it goes as i get older
No need to fret- it's nothing that you need to worry about. A lot of girls go through this, especially now that people are more open about their sexuality. Just let life run its course, and you'll find out when the time comes.
Whether you learn you're straight or Rainbow, you're still you. <3
~ Onyx
Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 10:48 am
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lol, doll, when I was 12 and 13 I was in love with my best friend who was a girl. Still kind of am, even though we don't talk anymore.
But at the same time there are plenty of guys I've liked and yes I do get 'girl crushes' from time to time.
totally normal. emotion_bigheart
i wouldn't say I'm in love with my best friend but i really really like her...she's so pretty...cat_redface....
i'll see a guy and think they're cute or handsome yes but i haven't had a crush on a guy since i was in the 4th or 5th grade
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Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 10:51 am
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No need to fret- it's nothing that you need to worry about. A lot of girls go through this, especially now that people are more open about their sexuality. Just let life run its course, and you'll find out when the time comes.
Whether you learn you're straight or Rainbow, you're still you. <3
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that's true i just kind of denied that i had a girl crush for a while but this is the first (and probably only...) time i've come out in the open about it.
thank you for your advice emotion_hug
Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 10:58 am
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that's true i just kind of denied that i had a girl crush for a while but this is the first (and probably only...) time i've come out in the open about it.
thank you for your advice emotion_hug
It takes a lot of courage to admit- even to yourself- about these feelings. Trust me, I knew near for roughly a year that I wasn't "straight" before I came out to my GSA, my friends, and even longer for my family.
If you ever need to talk, I always keep my PM inbox open <3
It takes a lot of courage to admit- even to yourself- about these feelings. Trust me, I knew near for roughly a year that I wasn't "straight" before I came out to my GSA, my friends, and even longer for my family.
If you ever need to talk, I always keep my PM inbox open <3
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