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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2012 3:29 pm
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IT IS I.....dear ol Crimmy....randomly posting again bwahjahahah....anywhos...
Ok...so theres this gal at work I like. The other night we worked together and got along pretty well. That same night I asked if she liked starbucjks and said Id bring her one. THAT was today, I wake up...dink around on net till I think shes on break...then head up to SB and order 2 different drinks(that way she had a choice)...I go to the workplace, and I go over to that same dish area. I see her and ask if shed meet with me in the break room when she was done...shed already had her break, so I go to the break room(I had put the drinks in a fridge), grab the drinks and head back...I stiop by the divider right by the area....and hear my coworker David bad mouthing me to her saying "He probably wants to ask you out, but you dont wanna be with him" to which she replied, "Well, hes a nice guy" and he has the gall to say "Hes really not your type"...UH HUH....I walk around the corner and IMMEDIATELY tell him to stay the ******** out of it, that it aint his business and then I repeated verbatim what he had said and gave him a dirty look. Then I spun around, LITERALLY lol, and had those drinks in my hand and presented the option of her choice of either DoubleChocolatelyChip or Neopolitain...she got an embarrased look on her face, face palmed and laughed a lil and said "whatever happened to Mocha or Vanilla" AND HE CHIMES IN..."Well thats cause its starbucks". I paid him no mind and then shes still smilin a lil and looking at the drinks in either hand, and says "So I can have this one"(the chocolate one go figure lol) and I said yep...she said thank you, we walked into the other area of work and talked about what I was doing, what she would be doing in the coming days and then I asked her if we could arrange something.....she said yeah, if work ever permitted the both of us and etc. BOTTOM LINE: IM content and happy with all this....except for the fact that mr ChromDome David, is probably bad mouthing me to her right as I type this. He knows my habits and ways....and has a way with words and certain manipulative tactics, so he could twist s**t around badly and make me out to be some kinda druggy or super perv or something.....THATS what im worried about....HIM corrupting HER....and then Ill lose out all because hed do that and SHED be dumb enough to believe him. So...kinda worried...Please...all opinions etc accepted
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2012 6:23 pm
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Hello! About the girl you like at work, I doubt that she'll believe what he says about you. When you overheard the two of them gossiping, she didn't side with David, instead she said you were nice. She sounds like a great person, as for David, you should check to see if he likes her as well- there might be a reason as to why he's trying to make her not like you. Maybe David likes her too or he's trying get revenge for what happened in the past, etc.
I didn't know they had Neapolitan coffee! I love that stuff, I have to try it sometime. Back to the story: the part where you said you turned around and faced her, you said she was embarrassed. Maybe this is just a hunch, but did she happen to hear the conversation you had between David? That might be why she acted that way, if not, then she's probably just nervous around you- which is a good thing because that means she likes you! heart
Don't worry about David "corrupting her," that totally won't happen! She's interested in you and as you get to know each other, she'll realize what David is trying to do. If you do feel that it's becoming a problem, you can tell her not to believe what he says. Be careful around David, try to understand him and befriend him, he might be going through a hard time and simply looking for someone to listen to him. He might not be such a bad guy after all, remember that fighting will not solve anything.
I hope this helped, thank you for sharing that interesting story with us!
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2012 7:43 pm
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2012 11:00 pm
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2012 3:37 am
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2012 12:32 pm
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2012 1:06 pm
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2012 3:29 pm
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