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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2012 3:44 pm
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2012 3:49 pm
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THE_FAIRY_EMPRESS Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2012 3:57 pm
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2012 4:11 pm
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THE_FAIRY_EMPRESS I always find this really difficult sweatdrop Theres no real answer, going for drinks or food i think the guy should pay at least on the first date (offer to pay to be polite though) But anything more then that makes me feel uncomfortable, like I'm gold digging or something. confused it is nice for your bf to buy you stuff but you don't expect them to buy you everything, and when its some one you've only just started dating then you feel bad if it docent work out and they've spent a lot on you. Plus sometimes guys make it super awkward when you pay for stuff eek This one guy wouldn't stop saying thanks and hugging me and kissing me cause i bought him one cocktail after he'd taken me to two restraunts. And this is just a big unhelpful rant... Sorry sweatdrop if think maybe some guys if they feel a bit insecure about themselves think that paying is another thing they have to offer so get weird about girls paying? ok well i have been with him for two years but we have never been out just me and him and he knows i dont have money or get money easy cuz my family has it rough so he wants me to have all i want cuz we are planing on getting married but i just idk i cant take money from him when i know i wont be able to repay him
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2012 4:16 pm
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2012 4:20 pm
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2012 4:21 pm
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Iz-a-good-Kitty-Kitty little aishi chan
If he asked you out on a date then all he needs to pay for is the dinner and the movie. As for going into other stores and just looking he doesn't need to buy you anything.
My sister's ex boyfriend always brought her things and when she broke up with him or when they got in a fight he accused her of using him for money even though he didn't even have a job.
I personally would be offended if my boyfriend continuously brought me things because to me it is like he thinks I am all about money and that he better get me something nice everyday or else I am leaving him. That and should we break up I don't him bitching at me about using him when he decided to throw his money away by spending it all on me........
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do you think if i do let him bye my something he would use it against me ?
If you break up then it is a possibility.
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2012 4:29 pm
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2012 10:04 pm
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2012 4:07 pm
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