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Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2012 11:53 am


	Like, when people get mad and say for example, they lose a game and they yell out: "THIS GAME IS SO GAY!!!". I feel offended, I'm not gay, I'm bi but I still do. The only reason why I'm offended a little is because it has gotten a trend and it's basically saying that ALL bad things that happen are gay. So saying being gay is a bad thing? Is this only me?

Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2012 12:38 pm


	I'm Bi also, but I do have a habit of saying thats gay, but more of a happy way. I don't always take it as something to be offended about. My friends know im bi and we take it as a joke. Though there are those that say it and i do get offended by it.

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Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2012 12:39 pm


	no your not im a bi crossdressing guy and it stings a lil when i hear that too but i know those near to me don't mean it in that way

Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2012 12:52 pm


	unit01testtype How would i know I'm not bi? Your not a person who can tell me what I am or what im not

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Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2012 12:56 pm


	rhythmic_Nightmare unit01testtype How would i know I'm not bi? Your not a person who can tell me what I am or what im not wasnt saying your not bi. i was saying that the person who made this thread was not alone.

Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2012 12:58 pm


	unit01testtype rhythmic_Nightmare unit01testtype t My bad im sorry ;-;

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Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2012 12:59 pm


	rhythmic_Nightmare unit01testtype rhythmic_Nightmare unit01testtype t My bad im sorry ;-; no problem cute avi btw

Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2012 1:00 pm


	unit01testtype rhythmic_Nightmare unit01testtype rhythmic_Nightmare unit01testtype t Thnxs an likewise

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Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2012 1:06 pm


	zZ-Zain-Zz Like, when people get mad and say for example, they lose a game and they yell out: "THIS GAME IS SO GAY!!!". I feel offended, I'm not gay, I'm bi but I still do. The only reason why I'm offended a little is because it has gotten a trend and it's basically saying that ALL bad things that happen are gay. So saying being gay is a bad thing? Is this only me? That's actually why they say it....It's supposed to be sending that message. But, I'm not offended. I don't really see what's wrong witht the phrase. I say it sometimes, and I'm gay.

Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2012 1:08 pm


	Rainbow Neko Fairy zZ-Zain-Zz Like, when people get mad and say for example, they lose a game and they yell out: "THIS GAME IS SO GAY!!!". I feel offended, I'm not gay, I'm bi but I still do. The only reason why I'm offended a little is because it has gotten a trend and it's basically saying that ALL bad things that happen are gay. So saying being gay is a bad thing? Is this only me? That's actually why they say it....It's supposed to be sending that message. But, I'm not offended. I don't really see what's wrong witht the phrase. I say it sometimes, and I'm gay. Yeah. But I'm not offended like, hardcore.

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Posted: Tue Aug 28, 2012 10:58 am


	zZ-Zain-Zz Like, when people get mad and say for example, they lose a game and they yell out: "THIS GAME IS SO GAY!!!". I feel offended, I'm not gay, I'm bi but I still do. The only reason why I'm offended a little is because it has gotten a trend and it's basically saying that ALL bad things that happen are gay. So saying being gay is a bad thing? Is this only me? I hate when people say things like that, and usually I tell them so.

Posted: Tue Aug 28, 2012 11:05 am


	i dont really care. words change their meaning overtime and thats just what this is an example of. besides, if it really bothers you then just "correct" them and tell them its so hetero

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Posted: Tue Aug 28, 2012 11:16 am


	Shanna66 i dont really care. words change their meaning overtime and thats just what this is an example of. besides, if it really bothers you then just "correct" them and tell them its so hetero Yeah.. True. But I was just saying my opinion yum_puddi

Posted: Tue Aug 28, 2012 11:39 am


	The intent behind the saying is by no means malicious but it's just like saying "that's retarded". It has a derogatory context to it and that will never change. Now just because they don't mean anything particularly scheming behind it doesn't mean it's alright to say it. I never use the phrase and any time someone around me uses it I kindly correct them. It's not something we or anyone should have to put up with but for the time being it seems like it'll be a necessity to do so.