indecisive ex

[2Cute2BStraight]

Ok.. I have a problem with an ex gf and could really use some advice
backstory: we were together for 3 years, engaged, had a rough breakup (admittedly my fault)

2 weeks ago, she decided to message me on here and wanted to be friends again. We met for dinner, hashed out old issues, and started becoming friends again.

Her most recent ex gf (or gf? not sure right now) is quite frankly crazy and kind of bipolar. She hates me apparently and thinks my ex (we'll call her 'A') has been sleeping with me the whole time. 'A' has repeatedly told me we can no longer talk and then changed her mind shortly after (at least 4-5 times in 2 wks).

She seems to be flip-flopping a lot here and can't make a decision. I am really tired of the drama but still really want her in my life. I guess my question is whether or not its worth the time and effort to try to be her friend? Should I meet with 'A's gf and work this out or just not bother? because like I said, the gf is far off the deep end.. Any advice would help!!

 

[Dynmo Babe]

Ouch feel your pain.
being friends with someone after a really big break up is super hard, specially when its not easily forgotten, in a sticky situation 'A' should have considered everyone's feelings.i think she might actually be crazy if she cant trust her own GF or ex GF but I'm sure things will work out for the best for all three of you, maybe its best you stay out of each others lives for awhile? maybe? its not the best advice but its better then no replies  

[The Compound Eye]

While it won't always work out as you had planned, there are times when you should at least try to wrap a neat bow around the situation which you are in. This being one of those times. biggrin

-JLM  

[2Cute2BStraight]

Update: 'A's gf now sent me a long rambling message full of contradictions. She says she isn't "staking her territory" or claiming 'A' but then says she needs to know my intentions and that she wants all parties to know nothing can happen between me and her (contradiction 1!). She then tells me she never told 'A' not to talk to me and that she wants me to respect 'A's wishes but also not walk away from her. What if 'A' asked me not to contact her anymore and wanted me to walk away? Which do I do?! (contradiction 2!) etc...

This is driving me crazy!!  

[The Compound Eye]

2Cute2BStraight

Update: 'A's gf now sent me a long rambling message full of contradictions. She says she isn't "staking her territory" or claiming 'A' but then says she needs to know my intentions and that she wants all parties to know nothing can happen between me and her (contradiction 1!). She then tells me she never told 'A' not to talk to me and that she wants me to respect 'A's wishes but also not walk away from her. What if 'A' asked me not to contact her anymore and wanted me to walk away? Which do I do?! (contradiction 2!) etc...

This is driving me crazy!!

I would think that 'A's wishes should come before 'A's girlfriend's wishes.

-JLM