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PostPosted: Mon Sep 24, 2012 3:30 am


Okay, so I'm not the most fit person. I am a little weighty. But now the lady I work with has started to comment on my wieght. Today at work, my dad came by to check I had made it safely (like he always does), she asked why so I said that, she said "Oh no one will fight you, you're a big girl" and made a circle thing around her hips.

Then she started to ask if I weighed myself and stating "I know you love to eat" because she had bottle of vodka and pretended to drink it then laughed and said she doesn't drink or smoke, but eats and said it..

I usually laugh at her, but I have noticed myself eating less, and trying hard to wear clothes that make me look smaller.. This has really taken an affect on me. But I am trying to become fitter and be at a weight that is healthy, but her saying I am weighty doesn't make me feel better about myself. crying

Help!
PostPosted: Mon Sep 24, 2012 10:52 pm


Bump bumpity bump bump

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 27, 2012 4:16 am


Bump?

It seems to be getting worse sad
PostPosted: Thu Sep 27, 2012 5:21 am


What a b***h.
Totally ignore her love. She's probably just self conscious about her self so deflecting onto you. If she keeps doing it give her a verbal smack down, complain to your boss, its work place harassment. then get on with your life without worrying how you look. She obviously just a sad bitchy person who enjoys making others feel bad
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PostPosted: Thu Sep 27, 2012 6:44 am


I would completely stop socially talking to her.
If it's not work related then there's no need to talk, especially if she's going to continue being rude.

She may not be aware that she is hurting your feelings because you keep "laughing it off". So either tell her to knock it off or stop talking to her.
PostPosted: Thu Sep 27, 2012 8:18 am


M i n i R e d S t a r s
Okay, so I'm not the most fit person. I am a little weighty. But now the lady I work with has started to comment on my wieght. Today at work, my dad came by to check I had made it safely (like he always does), she asked why so I said that, she said "Oh no one will fight you, you're a big girl" and made a circle thing around her hips.

Then she started to ask if I weighed myself and stating "I know you love to eat" because she had bottle of vodka and pretended to drink it then laughed and said she doesn't drink or smoke, but eats and said it..

I usually laugh at her, but I have noticed myself eating less, and trying hard to wear clothes that make me look smaller.. This has really taken an affect on me. But I am trying to become fitter and be at a weight that is healthy, but her saying I am weighty doesn't make me feel better about myself. crying

Help!



People like her only say things like that because they do not like how they look I really get angry at people like her do not pay attention to what she says and feel good about yourself smile I can get down because of people too sometimes I just try to ignore them.

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