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Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2012 6:07 pm
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Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2012 8:19 pm
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Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2012 8:25 pm
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2012 4:25 am
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2012 5:51 am
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2012 8:17 am
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2012 12:59 pm
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2012 1:20 pm
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2012 1:30 pm
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CuriousColt Onato Well hun, I'm very similar to you :3 I questioned if I was gay when I was 16. My family basically flipped s**t and began to get "heart problems" and ect. Well, for their sake, I went back to being straight. I put it off until after I got back from basic training with the Army at Fort Benning, GA. I was 19 when I got back and I started thinking about it again. I then fell into depression for some reason not fully knowing. I discovered it was because I was drowning my real self for the sake of everyone else. I then came back out to my parents who openly accepted me after they discovered what I was going through. Hun, it's not good to drown any part of yourself. You can't help who you are. And trust me, there are TONS of gay guys in the Army, and lesbians as well. I'm a gay infantryman who serves his country. I'm only 20. Don't deny who you are :3 This was a huge help! After you finally came to accept it how did you start meeting guys? I had a friend who went to benning last summer and I dont ship till june sad but I will be going to Fort Leonard wood misery as they call it biggrin For basic and AIT for MP Ah, Mp. I hate MPs ;p hehe no offense. But I started meeting guys just by hanging out with people and being straight up with myself. Any friends I had, I told them I was gay. They all accepted me :3 but you'll find them, trust me.
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2012 5:29 pm
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In denial? Not really, although I went through that "Oh, I'm bisexual" thing that a lot of people seem to go through. I think I was mistakenly confusing my appreciation for a woman's figure for attraction. It's actually a huge difference.
I attempted telling my mother once, and she was in more denial than I was. xp It was almost funny, but ever since I've been feeling more and more distance grow between us, and it's been something like three to five years. Now she just agitates me, but I think it's because I know that a lot of things that I am or that I believe are opposed to her way of thinking. (Sometimes it's hilarious, like that one time she tried using "Well if humans evolved from monkeys, why are there still monkeys?" even though the topic was atheism and not, by any means, evolution. It's funny but it still drives another wedge between us.)
Right now I just don't care to tell my family because of some stuff that they're going through where other people whose beliefs concerning the gay community are not discernible to me could make their lives terrible because they wouldn't be able to keep their stupid mouths shut. sweatdrop
Anyway; I digress, back on topic. mrgreen I suppose the biggest 'denial' thing that I ever had to deal with was the Roman Catholic view on homosexuality. I'm not Christian anymore, but for a while I was attempting to reconcile the two. It wasn't 'denial', per say, but that's really the closest I ever came to it.
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2012 5:42 pm
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2012 5:59 pm
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2012 7:54 pm
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2012 9:42 pm
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