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 Posted: Sat Oct 13, 2012 8:40 pm
ohhh man. Okay. Feeling really flustered at the moment... um... so...
well I try my best to be somewhat tomboyish at least... then there's this guy friend that's really sweet to me... He even told me he likes me and then at first I thought I was "a-sexual" like my best friend says, but now I'm thinking I'm "demi-sexual"... I already explained why I can't get together with him, but even so I can't stop thinking about him, and I do care about him, but just..... gah!!! I don't want to be some crazy obsessive possessive girly-girl who makes these weird fantasies and then begins to change herself because of this one person!!... It's frustrating because I feel I might be holding myself back, but I have to because of these things I promised myself..... DX GAAAAHHHH
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Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 8:31 am
Just go with whatever's going to make you happiest.
I don't understand why you're afraid to be with this guy; it sounds like you're trying to prove a point or something, and I can't figure out what that is. D: I feel labels are not necessary when it comes to sexuality, personality. etc.; you like who you like and that's that. It doesn't define who you are. Having the, "Well, I'm [insert sexuality here] so I can't like this person" mentality might hold you back from engaging in some really good relationships. If you're not the type to become obsessed with a guy, I don't think it's going to start all of a sudden. Making promises or vows to yourself might backfire in the future. Just enjoy it for what it is without taking it for granted.
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2012 10:01 pm
thanks... though it's just because of some things I've told and promised myself... I have no time to commit, I don't want to hurt him, I'm scared to even think about losing my virginity, and I feel he'd respect that but still it freaks me out... >_< ugh...
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