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Posted: Sun Oct 14, 2012 6:53 am
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Posted: Sun Oct 14, 2012 9:46 am
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Posted: Sun Oct 14, 2012 1:17 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 14, 2012 1:20 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 14, 2012 5:39 pm
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Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 8:00 am
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Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 10:27 am
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Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 11:42 pm
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Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2012 7:00 am
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Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2012 3:02 pm
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Acidburn95 Alice is Madness I know how you feel, I came out to my mother that I was MTF transgender but she didn't support me when I told her. I hope your parents are more supportive and understanding then mine was and if they truely love you they will come to support you for who you are not for what they want you to be. i hope that you find someone in this world who will love and accept you for who you truly are. may the goddess holo the wise wolf bring you good fortune. i have a girlfriend that is MTF, and i see her for who she truly is. i hope you can find someone too. although, i do view you as a girl, so...... what i mean was, that i hope you'll find someone who will see you for who you are and love you for that, who isn't already dating someone. if i didn't have a gf, i would definitely date you. true story ^w^ Thank you.
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Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2012 3:28 pm
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Posted: Sat Oct 20, 2012 4:52 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 21, 2012 5:28 am
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Shanna66 is there any reason they need to know right now? i told my dad and my sister and thats it as far as family goes. i figured since i married a man my filthy little bisexual-ness will probably never come up in conversation. though if my cousin start bitching about how slutty bisexuals are one more time i think i will just go ahead and come out to her just realize that your family is filled with people, and people are learning creatures who are flawed. if you dont think they will accept you right away then ease them into it. bring up gay rights and share information, eventually if you feel the need to you can just come out to them and hope for the best. they are your family and should love you no matter what, if they dont then that is their problem and you will get to tell them to shut their mouths at all family events from then on
Bolded for emphasis. I've wondered that myself. I'm engaged to a man and unless something goes horridly wrong, I plan to marry him. I'm also bisexual. He knows, my sister knows and some friends. But the rest of my family, (parents, brother, extended) don't know. For the most part, it doesn't ever come up. Though it would be nice to see a beautiful woman and be able to remark about her around my brother without getting that weird look from him. (Boything and I, despite being engaged, look at other people. We're engaged, not dead. xD)
So I don't talk about it. That said, I've slowly become more outspoken about LGBT rights. My dad went with me to a protest earlier this year supporting LGBT rights. I post about it on FB. I've talked about it with my mother. So if they don't suspect something I'd be surprised. I think being vocal about supporting rights will help should I ever come out for whatever reason.
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Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2012 4:48 am
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Lady Kayura Shanna66 is there any reason they need to know right now? i told my dad and my sister and thats it as far as family goes. i figured since i married a man my filthy little bisexual-ness will probably never come up in conversation. though if my cousin start bitching about how slutty bisexuals are one more time i think i will just go ahead and come out to her just realize that your family is filled with people, and people are learning creatures who are flawed. if you dont think they will accept you right away then ease them into it. bring up gay rights and share information, eventually if you feel the need to you can just come out to them and hope for the best. they are your family and should love you no matter what, if they dont then that is their problem and you will get to tell them to shut their mouths at all family events from then on
Bolded for emphasis. I've wondered that myself. I'm engaged to a man and unless something goes horridly wrong, I plan to marry him. I'm also bisexual. He knows, my sister knows and some friends. But the rest of my family, (parents, brother, extended) don't know. For the most part, it doesn't ever come up. Though it would be nice to see a beautiful woman and be able to remark about her around my brother without getting that weird look from him. (Boything and I, despite being engaged, look at other people. We're engaged, not dead. xD)
So I don't talk about it. That said, I've slowly become more outspoken about LGBT rights. My dad went with me to a protest earlier this year supporting LGBT rights. I post about it on FB. I've talked about it with my mother. So if they don't suspect something I'd be surprised. I think being vocal about supporting rights will help should I ever come out for whatever reason.
yeah, the only complaint i have about not telling my aunts, uncles, and cousins is that i cant post about my girl crushes on facebook without them figuring it out, and half of them are the type of people i really dont want to know. pretty much they are the type of people that dont questions the bible and want to vote for romney because he is a republican instead of voting for him because they agree with him on issues
but i do share alot of lgbt friendly posts, pictures, and news so they know where i stand on gay rights so if it ever did come out it shouldnt be some huge suprise. plus im still the cousin that does the most for my grandmother and as long as she is ok with me they would have to suck it up.
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