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 Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2012 1:44 pm
Okay. So I've been in love with this guy and we've been in a relationship on and off for over 7 1/2 years. I'm absolutely sick of it, and have gotten to a point where he can just shove it.
I know I haven't been the perfect person to be around. I have gotten jealous, I've wanted him for myself, I've given way too much of me to him. I've tried too hard, and I had made him my entire world, which is a big no no.
1. He has gotten several thousands of dollars out of me. He still gets upset when he says he doesn't use me, and that the people around are wrong. I moved to North Carolina for him when we got engaged for the first time. I maxed out my $10,000 credit card limit because we couldn't pay for anything, and I moved down there without a license or anything with me. (I originally live in Indiana.)
I got extremely depressed because I had no friends, no family that lived near, and no life of my own. I was living through him. He didn't help me through that. All he did was blame me for being lazy, which depressed me even more. Of course half of it is my fault for moving down there, but I can rant if I want to damn it.
2. He broke his leg during BASIC training in the national guard. Apparently he's a veteran now. He had a hair line fracture that he didn't get checked out, so it snapped in half in the national guard. Now all of a sudden I am forced to say, "Happy Veterans Day" to him or he will get pissed. He didn't do s**t in there other than not make it through national guard training.
Now all of a sudden he's a veteran. He really served his purpose, and now the government is stuck paying for his bills. But sure, he's heroic. (I'm really sick of it.) I'm all for veterans, and I have a bunch in my family. A lot of people call his bull s**t.
3. Calling me names everyday, and then deciding to put some b***h as his profile pic with him saying that she's gorgeous.
Okay. So I can be treated like s**t everyday. Calling me a b***h, whore, hooker, ho, slut, etc. But apparently there's no penalty for him. Basically, I'm about to blow up on his a**. It's okay for him to say these things to me and s**t on me, but he's oh so nice to me. Right?
I could go on, but I'm just building up my anger.
I think it's about time to work on me, and let him be miserable by himself. I plan on being a nurse, I plan on traveling and building a life for myself.
And I'm certainly not perfect, but I give too much of myself for people to s**t on me for. Sorry for the rant.
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2012 1:51 pm
kick his a**, verbally or physically, and get out of there!
and if he tries to blame you, tell him to stfu and gtfo owo
c'mon, everyone's calling BS on him? and he thinks it's their fault? he's stupid.
time to say bye to him owo
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2012 1:52 pm
emotion_hug I totally know where you are coming from. It sounds very similar to my relationship. Go ahead and rant all you want. If you need someone to talk to I am here so feel free to quote me here or message me.
You really shouldn't have to put up with that sort of treatment. No one should. I've very recently realized that life is worth living and you have to do what's best for you and not best for everyone else. Hang in there hon!
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2012 1:57 pm
Kitalpha Hart kick his a**, verbally or physically, and get out of there!
and if he tries to blame you, tell him to stfu and gtfo owo
c'mon, everyone's calling BS on him? and he thinks it's their fault? he's stupid.
time to say bye to him owo
Because he's so high on himself.
I'm like, the last person to hate anyone.
I am known as the sweetest person, but enough is enough. emotion_brofist
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2012 2:00 pm
RainbowPop26 emotion_hug I totally know where you are coming from. It sounds very similar to my relationship. Go ahead and rant all you want. If you need someone to talk to I am here so feel free to quote me here or message me. You really shouldn't have to put up with that sort of treatment. No one should. I've very recently realized that life is worth living and you have to do what's best for you and not best for everyone else. Hang in there hon!
I've been in over my head for over 7 years, and it's enough for me.
I'm a pretty weak willed person, but when I get s**t done I do it.
Gotten sick of the s**t that I've put up with.
Again, I admit I'm not the best person.
Someone who can't admit there faults and are mentally absusive, I'm done.
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2012 2:03 pm
+Pepsi.Product.Orgasm+ I have a lot of friends through out the U.S. I need to see.
I've been in over my head for over 7 years, and it's enough for me.
I'm a pretty weak willed person, but when I get s**t done I do it.
Gotten sick of the s**t that I've put up with.
Again, I admit I'm not the best person.
Someone who can't admit there faults and are mentally absusive, I'm done. You sound so much like me its scary. I have the weak willed problem too... and I get discouraged pretty easily... No one is perfect but someone like that needs to be left to their own devices. People like that are never deserving of the person they are with.
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The_9th_Doctors_Rose Crew
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2012 2:07 pm
RainbowPop26 +Pepsi.Product.Orgasm+ I have a lot of friends through out the U.S. I need to see.
I've been in over my head for over 7 years, and it's enough for me.
I'm a pretty weak willed person, but when I get s**t done I do it.
Gotten sick of the s**t that I've put up with.
Again, I admit I'm not the best person.
Someone who can't admit there faults and are mentally absusive, I'm done. You sound so much like me its scary. I have the weak willed problem too... and I get discouraged pretty easily... No one is perfect but someone like that needs to be left to their own devices. People like that are never deserving of the person they are with.
This weekend I have it packed full of going to Twilight and a baby shower. After that I'm going to talk to a guidance counselor about getting into school to become a CNA. I want to travel the world and see where my life lands instead of continually being miserable.
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2012 2:13 pm
+Pepsi.Product.Orgasm+ Sounds like we should be friends.
This weekend I have it packed full of going to Twilight and a baby shower. After that I'm going to talk to a guidance counselor about getting into school to become a CNA. I want to travel the world and see where my life lands instead of continually being miserable. That would be nice. Oh fun stuff. Oh good luck! I've been wanted to look into getting into school but I'm hoping to just get a job first (one I can transfer to Texas with so I can be with my girlfriend). I want to travel the world too eventually smile . Being continually miserable is really awful... I've had pretty much 6 years of it come December. I finally met someone who makes me happy so I am going to change my life. I promised her even if she were to tell me she hates me tomorrow I am going to change things because she's proven to me that life is worth living. Its not right or fun to sit around and be miserable from day to do. Doing nothing constructive or fun. Its not healthy either.
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2012 2:16 pm
+Pepsi.Product.Orgasm+ Kitalpha Hart kick his a**, verbally or physically, and get out of there!
and if he tries to blame you, tell him to stfu and gtfo owo
c'mon, everyone's calling BS on him? and he thinks it's their fault? he's stupid.
time to say bye to him owo
Because he's so high on himself.
I'm like, the last person to hate anyone.
I am known as the sweetest person, but enough is enough. emotion_brofist wootwoot~
emotion_brofist
good luck starting on your own (again?)!
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2012 2:16 pm
RainbowPop26 +Pepsi.Product.Orgasm+ Sounds like we should be friends.
This weekend I have it packed full of going to Twilight and a baby shower. After that I'm going to talk to a guidance counselor about getting into school to become a CNA. I want to travel the world and see where my life lands instead of continually being miserable. That would be nice. Oh fun stuff. Oh good luck! I've been wanted to look into getting into school but I'm hoping to just get a job first (one I can transfer to Texas with so I can be with my girlfriend). I want to travel the world too eventually smile . Being continually miserable is really awful... I've had pretty much 6 years of it come December. I finally met someone who makes me happy so I am going to change my life. I promised her even if she were to tell me she hates me tomorrow I am going to change things because she's proven to me that life is worth living. Its not right or fun to sit around and be miserable from day to do. Doing nothing constructive or fun. Its not healthy either.
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2012 2:17 pm
+Pepsi.Product.Orgasm+ Yeah. I'm 23, and it's about time to get off my a** and make myself happy. Exactly! I'm 25. When you've had enough you've had enough. I figured I've lived in this trap far too long.
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