Probably wrong place buuuuut....

[Meister_Solstice]

I was just curious if someone could help me figure out if im bisexual or gay cause i really dont know and itd help if someone would help me x.x  

[Taeryyn]

I'm not really sure how other people are supposed to help you determine your personal identity. sweatdrop

Nobody can figure it out for you. Some people know from a very young age, while others take much longer to figure out. Eventually, you'll figure it out yourself. I strongly doubt that there is anything anyone can tell you that will speed up the process.

I'm almost 26. I initially thought I was bisexual, when I was 14 or 15. Then I came to the conclusion that I was gay. Then I realized, gradually, that that wasn't quite accurate, either. But by that time, I was in my 20s, and honestly, I just really don't give a ******** anymore. blaugh When asked about my sexuality, I usually respond with "not straight" or "queer" (depending on who's doing the asking).  

[Meister_Solstice]

Taeryyn

I'm not really sure how other people are supposed to help you determine your personal identity. sweatdrop

Nobody can figure it out for you. Some people know from a very young age, while others take much longer to figure out. Eventually, you'll figure it out yourself. I strongly doubt that there is anything anyone can tell you that will speed up the process.

I'm almost 26. I initially thought I was bisexual, when I was 14 or 15. Then I came to the conclusion that I was gay. Then I realized, gradually, that that wasn't quite accurate, either. But by that time, I was in my 20s, and honestly, I just really don't give a ******** anymore. blaugh When asked about my sexuality, I usually respond with "not straight" or "queer" (depending on who's doing the asking).

Okay just Im getting lonely and like i keep seeing girl and guys that both lookattractive and all but i feel awkward when i think about asking either or out so im just tryig to see if there was a way sinc im bicurious and girls at school said like the way that helped them out to see if they were bi or lesbin was rthat they had a bisexual/lesbian girl date them and yeah  

[Taeryyn]

Meister_Solstice

Okay just Im getting lonely and like i keep seeing girl and guys that both lookattractive and all but i feel awkward when i think about asking either or out so im just tryig to see if there was a way sinc im bicurious and girls at school said like the way that helped them out to see if they were bi or lesbin was rthat they had a bisexual/lesbian girl date them and yeah

Holy run-on sentence, Batman. xD I'm just teasing, but seriously, punctuation is your friend.

Honestly, just date whoever you're most interested in. 3nodding I don't think experimentation is bad, but I also don't think it's necessarily going to make things any more clear for you.

Anyway, nothing ventured, nothing gained. At worst, you'll be in the same position you are now (confused) and possibly a bit heartbroken, and at best, you'll have a better understanding of your identify and/or end up dating someone really awesome.  

[Meister_Solstice]

Sorry! Im bad at punction and grammar and spelling if i dont use the word very often >.< i dont want to be heart broken again though my last relation ship destroyed me because like after almost a year my ex said she never loved me like bf/gf she loved me like a brother then i asked why you say yes and she said cause she was given 50$ if she said yes as a joke and i think thats when i became bi-curious  

[Taeryyn]

It's okay; like I said, I was just teasing. :3

Nobody wants to be heartbroken, and if you've had a bad breakup, it's completely understandable that you'd want to avoid getting burned again.

Depending on how long ago things ended with your ex, it's entirely possible that you might not be ready to start dating again. But again, that's something that only you can determine.  

[Meister_Solstice]

True. Just my combination of what i am,do and etc make me hard to find anyone. sad being pagan wiccan and a furry and bi-curious at my school is the recipie for death. sad i wish people werent so judgemetal. I just hate pain i wish i could feel good for a change