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Posted: Tue Dec 18, 2012 3:41 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 18, 2012 4:08 pm
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Fashionable Businesswoman
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Posted: Wed Dec 19, 2012 12:52 am
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Posted: Wed Dec 19, 2012 4:33 am
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Posted: Wed Dec 19, 2012 4:13 pm
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I was never, and currently have never, experienced bullying for coming out.
I think people are rather intimidated by me to begin with, I have a strong personality, very much so "no bullshit" oriented. I keep things open and honest with other people and in general was well liked in high school.
I had a lot of people in high school, specifically straight men, tell me that should anyone ever give me any problems, they would undoubtedly have my back.
For the most part, I was kind to others and very open minded and receptive to their opinions and perceptions. People tended to look up to me and as such never attempted to challenge me or my sexuality.
Currently in college I've yet to experience any sort of offenses. Again, I've nestled myself into a good group of friends and people keep me in rather high regards. Everyone I meet, straight men and women, tend to see me as a fun and charismatic individual and as such have supported me on many occasions that I myself hadn't even physically been present in.
I think not being bullied is something to be very normal. You can't expect the worst in everyone nor can you see fault in their general acceptance of you. Perhaps it's something to instead learn from and maybe teach to others.
I tend to think of it all like Karma; you receive what you give to others. If even a handful of people perceive you as someone to look up to it tends to follow that many others will also view you in the same light. If you're comfortable in yourself, others tend to be comfortable with you.
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