It all started at one of my friends house, he said, "Do any of you guys read Reddit?" I said, yes! And in truth, I do! So, he asked me "When does the narwhal eat bacon" I was in a silly mood and I decided not to answer. Let it be known that the Narwhal eats bacon at Midnight. Aye? Aye. However, my best friend thought I was lying about reading reddit and after I came home she texted me saying;
"Why did you lie about reading reddit?"
"I didn't?"
"Why didn't you answer?"
"I was feeling silly?"
"I think you're a liar."
"Do you have an insecurity with liars?"
"It really bugs me, so to think my best friend was lying..."
"I wasn't?"
"LIAR."
Strike one on my part? I didn't see anything I did wrong. I explained my logic, but apparently, that's not enough. After 3 weeks of total alienation by her, I felt this "wall" (metaphorically) was growing between us. Our talking every minute dwindled to nothing. We said, our greetings and our farewells and then later it went to us totally avoiding each other. Finally, she came up and apologized and said that lying really bugs her. I told her I understood and it resumed. I was quite pleased that things went normal.
Wrong. Apparently, she lied to me about being "okay" about the whole reddit thing. Me, being...me...I said that was horribly ironic which pissed her off.
She claims me to be lying...and then she lies to me? And then DENIES it? It made me chuckle at how hypocritical this fight had escalated.
Next day after I did this, my best friend asked me why my name wasn't on the National Honor Society list, as I was explaining that I couldn't go to any meetings and that I had family problems along with health--she told me, "Is this another lie?"
First of all, ouch.
Second of all, the hell?
I guess I'm just hurt, I've never lied to her. What motive is there for me to lie to her? I've tried to make things better but everything I say she just states back.. (repetitively), "Did you lie?"
NO. NO I DID NOT.
I did tell her one day I was tired of this, I wanted our friendship to be the way it was before all this useless drama had started. And all she said to me was...
"Is that a lie?"
After that, we went our ways. I was quite fine honestly without her in my life, although being my best friend we did exchange secrets and such..and after our dispute she began to spread rumors me as my fear is to be alone.
She tried to rid me of all my friends.
I told her not to drag them into this and all she told me was to grow up and stop acting so "immature".
I couldn't stop laughing at that notion.
I always thought she was immature in this whole fight.
A lot of people are telling me to suck it up and apologize..but I don't know if I want *THAT* kind of friend in my life.
All I'm asking for is...your opinion on the matter.
Should I keep her as a friend...or just move on with my life?
I appreciate you reading this...and just... I guess listening to a confused friend.
UPDATE AS OF: 27/02/13
My friend tried to build up my other friends to go against me, however most of my friends realized she was simply misunderstanding and that this whole fight was...stupid. Of course, my friend ended up realizing this as well/ Although, my friend is quite prideful and has yet to apologize properly to me.
My friend ended up sending me a simple message of stating:
"I've realized I have been a jerk, so I'm going to stop now."
I asked her if this was an apology, or simply a way of ended all friendship between the two of us in the end; we both agreed to be acquaintances. Although she still has not apologized, nor has she spoke to me at all for the past 3 weeks since this agreement took place.
I'm glad the drama is over--although I've lost a couple of close friends who ended taking her side and believing that I am a liar. Ah well. I suppose friends come and go. :v
I'm not being picky, but usually acquaintences talk on and off--although we seem to be complete strangers.
I do thank everyone for their input--hopefully this is end of this silly drama that has took place for literally...8 months now. ._.
Thank you again! I honestly do appreciate everyone's input on the matter. >.<
*gives everyone appreciation tea*
yum_tea
"Why did you lie about reading reddit?"
"I didn't?"
"Why didn't you answer?"
"I was feeling silly?"
"I think you're a liar."
"Do you have an insecurity with liars?"
"It really bugs me, so to think my best friend was lying..."
"I wasn't?"
"LIAR."
Strike one on my part? I didn't see anything I did wrong. I explained my logic, but apparently, that's not enough. After 3 weeks of total alienation by her, I felt this "wall" (metaphorically) was growing between us. Our talking every minute dwindled to nothing. We said, our greetings and our farewells and then later it went to us totally avoiding each other. Finally, she came up and apologized and said that lying really bugs her. I told her I understood and it resumed. I was quite pleased that things went normal.
Wrong. Apparently, she lied to me about being "okay" about the whole reddit thing. Me, being...me...I said that was horribly ironic which pissed her off.
She claims me to be lying...and then she lies to me? And then DENIES it? It made me chuckle at how hypocritical this fight had escalated.
Next day after I did this, my best friend asked me why my name wasn't on the National Honor Society list, as I was explaining that I couldn't go to any meetings and that I had family problems along with health--she told me, "Is this another lie?"
First of all, ouch.
Second of all, the hell?
I guess I'm just hurt, I've never lied to her. What motive is there for me to lie to her? I've tried to make things better but everything I say she just states back.. (repetitively), "Did you lie?"
NO. NO I DID NOT.
I did tell her one day I was tired of this, I wanted our friendship to be the way it was before all this useless drama had started. And all she said to me was...
"Is that a lie?"
After that, we went our ways. I was quite fine honestly without her in my life, although being my best friend we did exchange secrets and such..and after our dispute she began to spread rumors me as my fear is to be alone.
She tried to rid me of all my friends.
I told her not to drag them into this and all she told me was to grow up and stop acting so "immature".
I couldn't stop laughing at that notion.
I always thought she was immature in this whole fight.
A lot of people are telling me to suck it up and apologize..but I don't know if I want *THAT* kind of friend in my life.
All I'm asking for is...your opinion on the matter.
Should I keep her as a friend...or just move on with my life?
I appreciate you reading this...and just... I guess listening to a confused friend.
UPDATE AS OF: 27/02/13
My friend tried to build up my other friends to go against me, however most of my friends realized she was simply misunderstanding and that this whole fight was...stupid. Of course, my friend ended up realizing this as well/ Although, my friend is quite prideful and has yet to apologize properly to me.
My friend ended up sending me a simple message of stating:
"I've realized I have been a jerk, so I'm going to stop now."
I asked her if this was an apology, or simply a way of ended all friendship between the two of us in the end; we both agreed to be acquaintances. Although she still has not apologized, nor has she spoke to me at all for the past 3 weeks since this agreement took place.
I'm glad the drama is over--although I've lost a couple of close friends who ended taking her side and believing that I am a liar. Ah well. I suppose friends come and go. :v
I'm not being picky, but usually acquaintences talk on and off--although we seem to be complete strangers.
I do thank everyone for their input--hopefully this is end of this silly drama that has took place for literally...8 months now. ._.
Thank you again! I honestly do appreciate everyone's input on the matter. >.<
*gives everyone appreciation tea*
yum_tea
