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Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2013 12:13 pm
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Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2013 1:06 pm
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Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2013 5:37 pm
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Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2013 6:24 pm
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Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2013 7:39 pm
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Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2013 11:01 pm
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Irouk scrd bst tym I'm openly gay at school but there is a few guys around who still haven't heard the news. Of these few there are those whom i am mildly attracted to and i haven't the courage to all out ask them of their sexuality. I guess it boils down to my fear of peer conviction. What would be your approach if you were in my situation and what advice do you have? I assume you are in High School? Oh those days of falling for a (suspected) straight person. Granted I graduated from high school in the late 00's, and at that time (though better then the past) wasn't in my mind the best time to approach other guys about their sexuality. I remember doing a few (rather foolish things) to seek out guy(s) i was interested in that weren't always the best idea. Perhaps times are different now (even though it was hardly five years ago) but I would suggest being involved with any gay groups (like gay-straight alliances). If you are crushing on a guy who doesnt identify as gay (at least not openly), then it might be best to let them be. High school can be an intense and confusing time so questioning peoples sexuality (who dont identify as queer) can be a bit of a bad idea, especially if you are not a close friend. All the advice in this thread is good, but I think this is the best. Irouk hit the nail on the head here I think. In my experiences, I've found it best to involve myself in gay groups, particularly gay-straight alliances, to meet guys (I ended up loving the club so much I became an officer lol). Typically, I'd have to air on the side of caution when curious about someone's sexuality. If they're a close friend it may be easier, but still be sure they'd be okay with you asking. Don't want to scare anybody wink Good luck, man xd
A little advice if you do decide to ask someone about their sexuality: When I've done it in the past, I always started with something like "Alright, I'm going to ask you something. I promise I'll never bring it up again if you don't want me to." or something like that to certain close(ish) friends I've been interested in before.
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2013 7:52 am
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2013 9:34 pm
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2013 9:55 pm
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