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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2013 6:29 pm
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2013 7:57 pm
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Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2013 11:21 am
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Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2013 3:35 am
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Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2013 3:37 pm
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Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2013 6:51 pm
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Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2013 10:35 pm
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Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2013 2:21 am
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Jaxinc Oh no that's understandable as physical attraction is the common base for most relationships and always has been. I was just pointing out that it shouldn't be the center of the relationship. From a different point of view if you were in an accident causing you to lose your bits would it cause your mate to love you any less, or not find you attractive? It shouldn't as you're the same person they were first attracted to and fell in love with. This was more my point, and not that it should be expected because it certainly is not expected by most. I'm slightly different being as I'm pansexual, and gender or appearance is meaningless to me.
There is a HUGE difference between being in an accident and being disfigured and willingly choosing to change your biological anatomy. So much so that I find it unfair to compare the two. Apples and oranges, mate.
One would need to endure one hell of an accident that would require something comparable to changing one's naughty bits. One could get cancer and need surgeries that could change such. I've taken care of such patients. But again, the cancers that would change that are fairly rare.
To go back to my boything, losing arms/legs wouldn't faze him. Being facially disfigured wouldn't faze him. But as a very straight male, taking my female bits away and adding a p***s would. And no accident or disease could do that to me. That said, my boything is a lot more awesome than most people. Some people wouldn't be able to deal with such disfigurement or physical changes. And that'd suck. But the point remains that an accident/disease isn't comparable to a sex change.
If the OP's crush is a very straight male and likes lady bits, knowing what the OP wants to do might kill the attraction. It may not. It'd be great if it didn't. But he can't be faulted for it. Now if the crush decides to hate on the OP because of his choice, that he can be faulted for. If he ends the friendship over that, that he can be faulted for. But not for NOT having an attraction to man bits.
EDIT: It's early as hell.
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Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2013 2:30 am
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Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2013 6:28 am
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