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Crazy_Evil_Mother7

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 13, 2013 6:18 pm
Hi, I need ya'lls help. I have a friend who is a guy and he really wants to be a girl. I am cool with it but he keeps getting all sad cause he can't become one yet. So any advice I can give him.  
PostPosted: Thu Feb 14, 2013 6:10 am
The best thing I'd say is continue to pick his brain over what he actually wants.

Is it truly that he wants to have a sex change to become physically "female" or something more? Perhaps less, even?

The best thing you can do is continue to reassure him and keep him optimistic of the future.
 

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PostPosted: Thu Feb 14, 2013 8:56 am
make sure you are comforting and dont try to make her feel like a man if she really wants to be a woman  
PostPosted: Mon Mar 25, 2013 2:13 pm
Use pronouns that she is comfortable with, treat her as you would any girl. Do girly things with her if she wants. I am a ftm trans, so female bodied male, and I always feel better after hanging out with the guys and just doing stereotypical guy stuff that makes me feel more masculine.  

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